Meeting People in Church
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Started by NeoSoulBrotha
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Feb 2007
NeoSoulBrotha
Rosedale, MD
We all know the cliche about finding a man/woman at church - how many of you have experienced it?
If so, how did things work out? Was your relationship better than those that started in the secular world? Do people still bring the same issues to the table?
Just curious...
#31
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PRAISE THE LORD!!!
That's what I like about you smc112...always keeping it real!!! LOL
Straight and to the point...(two thumbs up :-b)
#32
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Relationships are relationships so its not like meeting somebody in the church is going to be peachy keen... and church is not a place to just meet a potential mate, but i do believe God uses to put his children together on common ground. I met my boyfriend at school but it was a christian ministry we were in that brought us together. I do however find tha difference in dating a Church guy and unsaved guy is that u are more on one accord. Like when i told the unsaved guy my wonderful experiences at church and how good God has been to me he just didnt "get it" like my current boyfriend now...so yea i guess thats the difference ive experienced
#33
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smc112 wrote:The only thing that you have to be very careful of is this: Letting your guard down! You have to be careful not to let your guard down with these church men. I know you don't want to be paranoid but you have to be very cautious. A lot of the men (women included) are in church for the wrong reasons. A lot of men will bring those worldly games into the church. They might quote scriptures all day but what you need to watch is their actions. Actions speak louder than words and a tree is known by the fruit it bears. There are many people that have met their mate in the church and there is nothing wrong with that. People just have to pray about anyone they meet whether it is outside the church or inside.
