List the qualites in a man that you REALLY look for. If you dont REALLY look to see how good a person he is, dont put it in the list. When you first meet a guy, and you start sizing him up to see what he's like, what do you REALLY look for?
Ya'll be honest.
- nice teeth/smile
- a genuine approach
- intelligent/articulate
- a legitimate job... not "I do what I do" or "I hustle" :???:
If those aren't in place, we go no further.
It's Funny how females want the exact opposite of what guys think they want. I remember when Megan and I went back and forth on a topic similar to this one..Needless to say..She's right..
Yeah, it's better to get it from the source instead of assumption.
....while this thread is rather interesting and informing to our fellas.......i thought that this was supposed to be about what you look for in a first encounter....like...before a real conversation even pops off.....maybe it was just me then?? :???:
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Yeah i know. that was my first reaction too. Ladies, lissen to all them commercials. They ain't no joke. Get tested. Make sure your man, ur jump-off, or even ya hit it and quit it dude is tested. If your on one of them one-nite stand situations USE A ****. i know it sounds cliche and strait BET-ish, but RAP IT UP YA'LL! Too many young black women (between the ages of 17-25) are contracting and dying from HIV and ****. Please be careful ladies. That's all I ask. Can't be having the next black woman President snatched up cuz she aint think to ask her man to slide on a piece of latex. Love yaself before anyone else. Ain't nobody but ur child worth dying for.
(Sorry to get like this on a thread, but u gotta talk about stuff like this in every opportunity. awareness is the only way to a cure)
::raises hand::
I was a **** of a DL brotha....unfortunately :-(
Thank God im ok....but...there are many black women who were less fortunate than me...
The Fat Girl Sweet Lee Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 6:21 am Post subject:
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::raises hand::
I was a **** of a DL brotha....unfortunately
Thank God im ok....but...there are many black women who were less fortunate than me...
The Fat Girl Sweet Lee Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 6:21 am Post subject:
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::raises hand::
I was a **** of a DL brotha....unfortunately
Thank God im ok....but...there are many black women who were less fortunate than me...
are u fa real? how did u find out?
1. From the woman who introduced us... :x
2. I caught him tonguein the hell out of some dude... :-&
:-(
The Fat Girl Sweet Lee Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 6:21 am Post subject:
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::raises hand::
I was a **** of a DL brotha....unfortunately
Thank God im ok....but...there are many black women who were less fortunate than me...
are u fa real? how did u find out?
1. From the woman who introduced us... :x
2. I caught him tonguein the hell out of some dude... :-&
:-(
It sounds like she didn't like you....
What did you say to her after she told you he was like that??
The Fat Girl Sweet Lee Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 6:21 am Post subject:
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::raises hand::
I was a **** of a DL brotha....unfortunately
Thank God im ok....but...there are many black women who were less fortunate than me...
are u fa real? how did u find out?
1. From the woman who introduced us... :x
2. I caught him tonguein the hell out of some dude... :-&
:-(
It sounds like she didn't like you....
What did you say to her after she told you he was like that??
her excuse was that she thought i KNEW that he had bi-curious tendencies....i just rolled my eyes and walked off...wasn't worth gettin worked up about...i found out that i was ok...that was my main concern obviously....i was more upset at Him than i was at her....she didnt seem like the type to hate me or what not...(then again u never can tell these days can u).....funny thing is...he is STILL trying to get in contact with me...::smh::
