cafe-aulait wrote: I have a serious question and I need a serious answer...
Im talkin back to ma ex right? Im goin to his prom and everything, and he actually has not been doin ANYTHING wrong lately... He's been extra sweet to me (Ma aunt died today while I was at work and he has just been there for me). He truly seems like he has changed... (he might just be tryna make sure he gets tha nookie prom night...but who knows).
Now here's tha problem... I met this dude I work wit, and he REALLY likes me... (he is fine, but ma ex is fine too)... He never wants to get off tha phone. He wants me to go wit him to get his tattoo this weekend.... He's makin all these plans and I just met him two days ago. He's like it seem like he's known me forever. Now I can usually spot game super easily, but it seems like he genuinely likes me.
I feel extra WRONG for talkin to him knowin good and well ma ex is tryna get back, and is tryin hard...
I mean Im a playa from way back and I actually feel wrong this time. I almost feel like I should tell dude I cant talk to him, but on tha other hand I dont want to let a good thing pass me up...
Should I continue talkin to him? What should I do... Man I been on tha phone wit all ma girls and they're like, "girl talk to both of em"... Ma mother was even like, "why not keep both? u're young..." But I just aint feelin that way right now!
Damn that was long... U can probably tell I been thinkin about this ish...
you got a huge dilemma, Miss B...
I'ma tell you to keep talkin to both of them until prom night... depends on when the prom is, but i really want you to tell the new guy the situation... and it might be a test of his will, does he really feel like you're worth chasing, or will he back off... you can always keep it as friends, and maybe more... and see how things play out w/ your ex. maybe he is really serious about you this time, and wants to make things right... :arrow: