Meeting People in Church

Yeah, some of them have a gut from eating all of that fried chicken at the church! LOL Now I have seen some ministers that are nice looking, and I know those women at the church just go to eye the minister up and down. Women are attracted to ministers and some go after them even if they are married. Essence had an article about women who are attracted to ministers. I guess the attraction comes because ministers are nice and know how to treat women.

Not me! I've never had the desire to date a married man no matter who he is. Essence just wrote an article a while back about women who dated ministers. Things started off with them counseling and one thing led to the next. Now... I don't feel that there is anything wrong with dating a minister if he's single. I don't know where people get the notion that minister's can't date. If they are single, they have much right to date in order to find a wife. Yet, they have to walk a thin line and not date various women within the church that they pastor. I dated a minister once "who was single", but he wasn't my type. For one thing, I like to have a glass of wine or two and I don't want anyone looking at me like I'm sinning. I'm not saying that all ministers think like that, but some are to the extreme where they think people should not even drink a glass of wine. Everyone has their preference and I do want a Christian husband or believer, but I would prefer him not to be a pastor of a church.