i was reading somebody's post i forgot where it was and they was tryin to justify why people are single, but i know its different reasons for different people. so if u single, why are u?? is it becuz u cant find someone to meet ur standards, u thinktoo young, or u jus want to be a playa?? whatever the case my be, put it here.
As for me I don't really know why... i guess its a culmination of things but i think the main reason is that I see no point in getting in relationship unless its gonna last a while and that future woman and her personality gels with mine... a friend of mine brought it up a while back but there are 5 attributes of attraction physical, spiritual, mental (the other two i can't remember but they made sense...) and unless she meets all 5 then i figure there is no point in pursuing anything...
plus too many women can be crazy and i'm not down with the whole dude love thing so i'm assed out...
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
I feel u homie(no pun intended). But to be honest, i've been single all my life, and the only time i've really felt a void was when i was far from God. When it comes to me, if i'm not where i need to be spiritually, i'm gonna constantly yearn for attention/affection/admiration from a man...ANY man (and that's where the problem lies). The key is to have the RIGHT man. Since he hasn't come along yet, i'll just be chillin & doin the single thing, patiently awaiting my King.
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
i dont know if i have reach the point that there is a void in my life because when i am with someone i find myself getting nrevous and then i make up some dumb reason why i dont wanna be that person........i dunno sometimes i think i wanna be with someone steady but when guys approach want to be on that level with me i back away and then when i am single and no one is approaching me i feel lonely..........sorry yall im just rambling on and on right now i cant explin how i feel
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
i dont know if i have reach the point that there is a void in my life because when i am with someone i find myself getting nrevous and then i make up some dumb reason why i dont wanna be that person........i dunno sometimes i think i wanna be with someone steady but when guys approach want to be on that level with me i back away and then when i am single and no one is approaching me i feel lonely..........sorry yall im just rambling on and on right now i cant explin how i feel
sounds like u have a fear of commitment homie. That's ok tho. You're young. This is a good time to be single. Mature yourself & learn about YOU. Singlehood is a season to do u and work on yourself. Settle down when you are truly able to commit yourself to someone without questioning/doubting yourself, the person, or the relationship.
Damn...this is sad...I hope everyone that is single find someone that they can kick it with..The single life only lasts so long before it becomes boring and there is a void...
i dont know if i have reach the point that there is a void in my life because when i am with someone i find myself getting nrevous and then i make up some dumb reason why i dont wanna be that person........i dunno sometimes i think i wanna be with someone steady but when guys approach want to be on that level with me i back away and then when i am single and no one is approaching me i feel lonely..........sorry yall im just rambling on and on right now i cant explin how i feel
Itz ok @ GaPeach cuz Im the same way...
Except...I go through stages where i meet like 5 dudes in 1 week..and I'll talk to all of em..and I'll have my fav one that i wanna get with..playing the otha dudes..who by the way..are either cute..intelligent as hell..or jus wanna spend some quality time w/me without all the bullshyt...
But anyways..I always pick the wrong one...who ends up being someone i shouldnt even waste my time with...
I've never gone out and searched for someone..because thats when u find the WRONG one..I usually let the guys come to me...but i always push them away when its time to actually have a "relationship"...the whole part of getting a guy..flirting..is exciting to me...so i've never settled down...
But now Im at a point when Im actually just going to open up to someone who i feel i can be in a serious relationship with..It wont be until aug when i get down to school..cuz i REFUSE to do long distance :roll:
