I dont know what it is about the things that us guys go through but are women becoming more and more...
Whats the word....
Dispensible?
Not me personally, but it seems like all of my good guy friends are being sh*tted on. Good guys with bright futures who could have anyone decide to take chances on women who start out great and find some way to not only f*ck sh*t up, but make it seem like its their fault.
*inhale* Ive never seen so many unfaithful b*tches in my life. Treating men like pieces of meat without feelings...Im trying to keep my boys in line, but Im afriad they are going to become players and I wont be able to say anything that will change them around. I dont know if I want to.
Cuz im sick to my stomach. Physically upset.
Anyways, comments...
Yo, my opinion smells like Enygmata **** body spray. With a hint of Phoenix. (shh, thats just between us)
Dating demographics do play a role here because what you see affects how you feel. Surrounded by b*tches, I might be inclined to see a girl outside of the circle and call her one.
WHICH IS WRONG.
But the title of this post is losing faith in womankind because encouragement is being placed negatively by people who have no right or place to. Ive seen people already in good relationships f*ck over someone trying to get in one and not think twice about it. Sociopath? Hope not.
Spread the good word and be an example of what you teach. Sounds like Christianity when in fact im just talking about dating. Be a good man/woman and show them that they exist. Obviously my friends need to see some good influences because I cant help them.
But you are a good influence to your friends, at least i think you would be.
Yall were on point when you narrowed it down to personal opinions and how people believe what they see, and some times generalize an entire group by their perception of a few. I admit to being one that does this at times. I know that many people don't look outside there perception when considering an entire group tho.
But um cafe...I don't know about that dating outside the race thing. Not that it's anything wrong with it at all, but I've been around black women so long......I don't think that I can leave. I am open minded tho...
p.s. After talking to my guy that goes to crete, I just noticed how much you sound like a crete monee student.....or ex student rather...
But um cafe...I don't know about that dating outside the race thing. Not that it's anything wrong with it at all, but I've been around black women so long......I don't think that I can leave. I am open minded tho...
p.s. After talking to my guy that goes to crete, I just noticed how much you sound like a crete monee student.....or ex student rather...
Well then this thread should be titled "Losing Faith in Black Women"....
And how exactly do Crete-Monee ex-students sound?? Hmmm... I dont act like mostly Crete students so this should be interesting! Who is this boy you speak of?
But um cafe...I don't know about that dating outside the race thing. Not that it's anything wrong with it at all, but I've been around black women so long......I don't think that I can leave. I am open minded tho...
p.s. After talking to my guy that goes to crete, I just noticed how much you sound like a crete monee student.....or ex student rather...
Well then this thread should be titled "Losing Faith in Black Women"....
And how exactly do Crete-Monee ex-students sound?? Hmmm... I dont act like mostly Crete students so this should be interesting! Who is this boy you speak of?
No, this is for every woman equally. Its moreso for awareness than it is condemnation...I was just upset and now the conversation has branched off (not a bad thing either).
Dating outside your race to find something you Think you cant find inside your race is probably the dumbest thing I can think of. No, that someone else can think of. I didnt think of that sh*t. Everyone is capable of good and evil, black or asian. Or white. lol
But um cafe...I don't know about that dating outside the race thing. Not that it's anything wrong with it at all, but I've been around black women so long......I don't think that I can leave. I am open minded tho...
p.s. After talking to my guy that goes to crete, I just noticed how much you sound like a crete monee student.....or ex student rather...
Well then this thread should be titled "Losing Faith in Black Women"....
it really should.
i think i am too late to even respond to what sedi said before. besides, i'm tired. i dont feel like debating. it's always the same thing over and over. there's no point. you are going to stick to your beliefs, and i'm going to stick to mine.
Personally why would you lose faith in all women. First off all women are not the same and truly with all the women doggng men you have to think about how many men do the same thing to nice and descent females. It works both ways Some men have been hurt so they treat all women the
same cause they aren't trying to get hurt anymore, the same thing goes
for guys I see out here that dog girls. It does not make it right but that is how the times are now. I am glad I am not like that because I can say some guys do you wrong.
But um cafe...I don't know about that dating outside the race thing. Not that it's anything wrong with it at all, but I've been around black women so long......I don't think that I can leave. I am open minded tho...
p.s. After talking to my guy that goes to crete, I just noticed how much you sound like a crete monee student.....or ex student rather...
Well then this thread should be titled "Losing Faith in Black Women"....
And how exactly do Crete-Monee ex-students sound?? Hmmm... I dont act like mostly Crete students so this should be interesting! Who is this boy you speak of?
Yea I guess you can call it black womankind because as far as relationships goes I really don't even consider out of my race. I think thats bad actually considering I associate with people outside of my race. That just me though, I don't know if I can speak on behalf of everybody else on this one thing.
And yea your a crete student. Not afraid to speak your mind on a lot of subjects even if it irritates some people. One thing that my friend did that gave me this classification is talk about the dot that arabs put on their heads.......in front of them. And some other things he was saying about his people. From seeing some of your posts on here your the same way. It's actually funny tho. I don't think you know my guy tho he was probaly like a freshmen or sophmore when you were on your way out the door. His name is ed and he's a choir boy.
Why do you insist on making this a lame vs. women thing?! Everytime a females makes a point, MOST of which are valid, you have something to say about it!
See the problem is... some of you (yes, this includes you :-) ) just will NOT admit you are wrong. It's like... you CAN'T be wrong. Yes, some of your points are VERY good. And some are VERY wrong.
Yet some of you (including you again :grin: ) just refuse to admit you are wrong(which is why i said you remind me of my brother so much). And what you do then by not accepting that you're wrong is that you make comments to try to either a)flip the script b)change the topic by bringing something that's been said before c)avoid the question, and the most common d) contradict yourself to the MAX...
I'm sorry, but I just call a spade a spade.
Ain't nobody right all of the time. Hell... i'm wrong a LOT of the time. It ain't nothing, that's the only way I can learn.
Ay I love yall [females] but truth is truth. We not tryn to prove you wrong so much as state what's real...
THANK YOU the wire...ive been readin through this whole thread and there are a lot of good points (yall wont be seein me around here as much cuz i woulda been said somthing by now) but anyways, its like women ALWAYS have to be right or another thing that gets me is that say umm take a relationship for example...sometimes a man just wants to sit and watch a game or just do anything to enjoy himself, and a lot of the time, the woman has a problem...coming up wuth comments such as "youre so lazy"..."why are you always watchin syupid football"...now filp the script...a man would never be able to get away with some ish like that....but like LBF said...i love yall but sometimes ...yall wanha have the cake and eat it too...
But um cafe...I don't know about that dating outside the race thing. Not that it's anything wrong with it at all, but I've been around black women so long......I don't think that I can leave. I am open minded tho...
p.s. After talking to my guy that goes to crete, I just noticed how much you sound like a crete monee student.....or ex student rather...
Well then this thread should be titled "Losing Faith in Black Women"....
it really should.
i think i am too late to even respond to what sedi said before. besides, i'm tired. i dont feel like debating. it's always the same thing over and over. there's no point. you are going to stick to your beliefs, and i'm going to stick to mine.
and it's always the same people... Maybe, we all got problems! But i guess that's what happens when you have such strong personalities and a few weak ones.
If you all missed it on the other page, this message is for all women - quit gettin stuck on the title of the post. Its about the lack of good teachings by knowledgable women. I do my job by letting my boys know whats up so they at least know what the right decision is (that way they can never say they didnt Know right).
You all can argue the small points, but my focus stays on the missing words. Wheres the posts helping women be the best they can be? Naw, all I see is sh*t about small d*cks and cute guys. I'll continue to be thought provoking and challenging for my brothers, but someone needs to do the same.
For all women. Whens the last time you were challenged?
"We must dissent."
...yall wanha have the cake and eat it too...
But i guess that's what happens when you have such strong personalities and a few weak ones. 
