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^^^As a female and keepin it real, theres some definite truth to that, which is why Im not a huge DC fan right now. I like their old stuff much better than this new stuff.
Well, I won't necessarily say that she won't get the point because she probally understands what u are saying but won't agree. Not agreeing doesn't mean she doesn't get your point
We sometimes complain about men cheating, bad-mouthing(ie ****, hoes), and dl brothas ACTUAL things we've may have been through. Complaining about being mistreated ain't insecurity it's just venting out frustrations.
Yall complain about stuff like "yall only want thugs", "yall just want men with money", complaints that say too me that you feel unsure about something you're lacking so you want make it like it's a woman's misdeed when actually you just insecure in certain areas.
So you tellin me Im insecure cuz im not a rich ****?
No, it's not about you being insecure about not being a rich **** but it's about feeling you need to say things like that. When men say things like "women only like thugs" or "rich men", to me, a man feels insecure that what he already has ain't good enough or you feel like you have to compete. If a man was secure about getting women he wouldn't give a f*** and would think that there are plenty of women out there that he could get.
And men who say things like that let me know that they can't get a woman; so do all or most women only like thugs and rich men or is there something wrong with YOU.
Nah but when all a nig hear is "I want a ****", "I need a nig wit money", "youre too nice" it starts to get to a brotha. I mean I feel as though Im an attractive young brotha, got my head on straight, tryin to do right sure I can be an asshole or a lil cocky at times but hey. Females are just confused. Any dude can tell you that the same girls who talk about "I cant be wit you youre so nice youre like a brother to me" be the same ones callin you up all sad cuz thier dude done did them dirty.....
Well, I won't necessarily say that she won't get the point because she probally understands what u are saying but won't agree. Not agreeing doesn't mean she doesn't get your point
i mean come on... it's like talking to a brick wall... but whatever :???:
^I could say the same for you, sweets. Just because I'm not agreeing with what you say and I choose not believe in what you believe in doesn't mean you're talking a brick wall.
I just respond to what's being said, like you're supposed to do on a messageboard.
^I could say the same for you, sweets. Just because I'm not agreeing with what you say and I choose not believe in what you believe in doesn't mean you're talking a brick wall.
I just respond to what's being said, like you're supposed to do on a messageboard.
you really can't... b/c i can see it as a 2-way street... women and men do the same thing if it boils down to it... and i can see that... you however say when we actually speak up on observations... it's petty and we're insecure... but i'm not saying on the message board, but there are people (mostly women) who are insecure every single day... and just paranoid and ready to denounce any and everything....
i never said you had to agree with me... believe what you want to believe... that's fine... but at least respect other's point of view before denouncing it all together... that's how i feel you are doing... this was just like in the other topic in the Fellas forum... you pretty much singled ME out on what i was saying more than other people...
but you right though... this is a message board.. i'ma say what the hell i want... just like you are... but the difference is... i don't totally denounce people's opinion... you just quick to shoot someone down b/c of observations... :???:
i'm through though
Dwwaye always gotta get the last word...
Just LIKE a man.....
H.B.I.C INC. COMING SOOOOOOON
(sigh) i know... i need to stop... i did say i was done, didn't i? :-(
fine... i'm done... this time... for real....
i apologize to Megan...
you right Tippy
(walks away w/ head down :-()
Well, I won't necessarily say that she won't get the point because she probally understands what u are saying but won't agree. Not agreeing doesn't mean she doesn't get your point
i agree. There is nothing with exchanging dialogue that consists of two different opinions. What do u expect...for Megan to say "You guys are absolutely correct! Why have i been such an idiot?!". I'm still a little confused on how she "denounced" your opinion D? :???: She didn't agree with it, but i don't think she denounced it.
^Thanks Ken. And on that note, I'm through cause he's doing the exact thing he's trying to accuse me of. I don't even remember saying that Dwayne was insecure but oh well.
