Hello All,
I know this may sound a little redundant but, I was having a conversation with a male friend of mine and I wanted to know from a man's perspective "why do men cheat." Whoa, did he give me an earful ladies..lol. Anyway read the conversation below and feel free to share your feelings, opinions, etc. on this subject.
Nyla:
I need some real talk right now. I'm so tired of men (black especially) saying how they want a good woman who's smart, funny, attractive, self driven,
have a career, freaky, and the whole nine and then when they get them you all don't know how to handle them. Some even become intimidated. What is really up with all that. Why do men cheat? why would a man have sugar at home but, go out in the streets and start messing with ish? Explain this for me please.
Male:
The only simple way I can put it is that it is nature. A man will be a man first, my example I always use is even the Fine Halle Berry, couldnt keep here men from going astray, and she is mostly every mans dream......And for most men it is all about the hunt, and after the actual ****, it is boring, and they are out to hunt once more. It is not rocket science, just know that it is nothing that the women does, it is just what we do, no matter how great the woman is, there is always another woman on the radar.
How sad.
If children can't hold a decent conversation without showing their age, they should just go watch Spongebob.
Dumb @ss girl.
Unfortunately, Spongebob isn't on right now. ..So I'm on here. Either you can get used to me, or get the hell on. The simple fact that you even replied to my post shows how mature you are yourself.
"Dumb **** girl"
Ha!
Why does anyone make a dumb mistake like that? They probably werent thinking.
I dont think men or women are more or less likely to cheat. It simply comes down to how youre raised and what morals and values you stand for. Girls that are allowed to run the street become philandering hussies and boys without guidance Stay boys, looking for any little hole or thing to get into.
Simply put, youre more inclined to cheat if you have a lower moral standard.
Why does anyone make a dumb mistake like that? They probably werent thinking.
I dont think men or women are more or less likely to cheat. It simply comes down to how youre raised and what morals and values you stand for. Girls that are allowed to run the street become philandering hussies and boys without guidance Stay boys, looking for any little hole or thing to get into.
Simply put, youre more inclined to cheat if you have a lower moral standard.
I also think it has to do with morals and values. It's what you think matters the most. How you value yourself.
What do you mean by that?
Because if my prettiness is a tragedy, your ugliness is
indeed a catastrophe, ...a calamity, ...a fiasco, ...a natural disaster.
You poor poor child...I see you haven't learned about
making vagrant assumptions..
You make yourself obviously childish.
****? Ouch..Wow...That' really burned...
but I don't hold it against you...it wouldn't be the first time you've been wrong.
You poor poor child...I see you haven't learned aboutmaking vagrant assumptions..You make yourself obviously childish.****? Ouch..Wow...That' really burned...but I don't hold it against you...it wouldn't be the first time you've been wrong.
I noticed that everytime I call you ****, ...you change your picture.LOL. (Tickle, tickle) Ha!
How do I get a picture up there, by the way? (Question directed to anyone).
Why does anyone make a dumb mistake like that? They probably werent thinking.
I dont think men or women are more or less likely to cheat. It simply comes down to how youre raised and what morals and values you stand for. Girls that are allowed to run the street become philandering hussies and boys without guidance Stay boys, looking for any little hole or thing to get into.
Simply put, youre more inclined to cheat if you have a lower moral standard.
Whoa... wait... HOLD UP. TIME THE HELL out... don't think you just gon' slide up on here all willy nilly, without any of the oldheads noticin'. Where the devil have you been?
I noticed that everytime I call you ****, ...you change your picture.LOL. (Tickle, tickle) Ha!
How do I get a picture up there, by the way? (Question directed to anyone).
Whoa... wait... HOLD UP. TIME THE HELL out... don't think you just gon' slide up on here all willy nilly, without any of the oldheads noticin'. Where the devil have you been?
Huh?? Wha???? um....
*slowly creeping away from the scene he left his two cents*
Im um....Im not here. *nods*
You poor poor child...I see you haven't learned about
making vagrant assumptions..
You make yourself obviously childish.
****? Ouch..Wow...That' really burned...
but I don't hold it against you...it wouldn't be the first time you've been wrong. 
