I dont know what it is about the things that us guys go through but are women becoming more and more...
Whats the word....
Dispensible?
Not me personally, but it seems like all of my good guy friends are being sh*tted on. Good guys with bright futures who could have anyone decide to take chances on women who start out great and find some way to not only f*ck sh*t up, but make it seem like its their fault.
*inhale* Ive never seen so many unfaithful b*tches in my life. Treating men like pieces of meat without feelings...Im trying to keep my boys in line, but Im afriad they are going to become players and I wont be able to say anything that will change them around. I dont know if I want to.
Cuz im sick to my stomach. Physically upset.
Anyways, comments...
If you all missed it on the other page, this message is for all women - quit gettin stuck on the title of the post. Its about the lack of good teachings by knowledgable women. I do my job by letting my boys know whats up so they at least know what the right decision is (that way they can never say they didnt Know right).
You all can argue the small points, but my focus stays on the missing words. Wheres the posts helping women be the best they can be? Naw, all I see is sh*t about small d*cks and cute guys. I'll continue to be thought provoking and challenging for my brothers, but someone needs to do the same.
For all women. Whens the last time you were challenged?
"We must dissent."
Women constantly try to uplift each other...Well, most of us. There are so many options out there for women such as empowerment groups, clubs/organizations, etc. Even, most of what you see on TV is geared toward helping women and not only their life goals but their relationships. I think guys are the ones who don't help and support each other. So, i applaud you for doing what you do but why not challege females as well? Why is it that we have to always help our own gender?
As far as females being challenged on this site:???: ... I challenge everyone. I don't hold back when it comes to that.
If you all missed it on the other page, this message is for all women - quit gettin stuck on the title of the post. Its about the lack of good teachings by knowledgable women. I do my job by letting my boys know whats up so they at least know what the right decision is (that way they can never say they didnt Know right).
You all can argue the small points, but my focus stays on the missing words. Wheres the posts helping women be the best they can be? Naw, all I see is sh*t about small d*cks and cute guys. I'll continue to be thought provoking and challenging for my brothers, but someone needs to do the same.
For all women. Whens the last time you were challenged?
"We must dissent."
Women constantly try to uplift each other...Well, most of us. There are so many options out there for women such as empowerment groups, clubs/organizations, etc. Even, most of what you see on TV is geared toward helping women and not only their life goals but their relationships. I think guys are the ones who don't help and support each other. So, i applaud you for doing what you do but why not challege females as well? Why is it that we have to always help our own gender?
As far as females being challenged on this site:???: ... I challenge everyone. I don't hold back when it comes to that.
cosigns. i see you are doing what you do empowering your boys, and thats great. i encourage my girls when there is a need for it. i say what i can on this site, but most of these ladies are grown and are who the are by this point anyway. dont think i am trying to start another men vs. women argument again, although that is what it will end up being anyway, but i dont see an attempt from you guys to "empower" anyone. seriously, where are these threads. ::looks through "fellas forum":: except for the couple of threads you JUST posted a couple of days ago, the fellas forum looks very similar to the ladies forum. so what exactly is your point?
If you all missed it on the other page, this message is for all women - quit gettin stuck on the title of the post. Its about the lack of good teachings by knowledgable women. I do my job by letting my boys know whats up so they at least know what the right decision is (that way they can never say they didnt Know right).
You all can argue the small points, but my focus stays on the missing words. Wheres the posts helping women be the best they can be? Naw, all I see is sh*t about small d*cks and cute guys. I'll continue to be thought provoking and challenging for my brothers, but someone needs to do the same.
For all women. Whens the last time you were challenged?
"We must dissent."
Women constantly try to uplift each other...Well, most of us. There are so many options out there for women such as empowerment groups, clubs/organizations, etc. Even, most of what you see on TV is geared toward helping women and not only their life goals but their relationships. I think guys are the ones who don't help and support each other. So, i applaud you for doing what you do but why not challege females as well? Why is it that we have to always help our own gender?
As far as females being challenged on this site:???: ... I challenge everyone. I don't hold back when it comes to that.
cosigns. i see you are doing what you do empowering your boys, and thats great. i encourage my girls when there is a need for it. i say what i can on this site, but most of these ladies are grown and are who the are by this point anyway. dont think i am trying to start another men vs. women argument again, although that is what it will end up being anyway, but i dont see an attempt from you guys to "empower" anyone. seriously, where are these threads. ::looks through "fellas forum":: except for the couple of threads you JUST posted a couple of days ago, the fellas forum looks very similar to the ladies forum. so what exactly is your point?
You can look at my post count and know that almost everything I have written has been purposeful except for like 300 dedicated to drinking and **** and miscellaneous fun. Thats just me.
I havent been on long enough to influence This site directly, but when i do get on the ball I do create thoughtful posts for everyone. And the empowerment that Im speaking of comes in all forms, self esteem and being knowledgeable.
*goes to eat Fruity Pebbles*
If you all missed it on the other page, this message is for all women - quit gettin stuck on the title of the post. Its about the lack of good teachings by knowledgable women. I do my job by letting my boys know whats up so they at least know what the right decision is (that way they can never say they didnt Know right).
You all can argue the small points, but my focus stays on the missing words. Wheres the posts helping women be the best they can be? Naw, all I see is sh*t about small d*cks and cute guys. I'll continue to be thought provoking and challenging for my brothers, but someone needs to do the same.
For all women. Whens the last time you were challenged?
"We must dissent."
We are saying the title should be changed, because 95% of the guys who have responded admit that they would never, and have never dated outside their race. So why discuss womankind if they haven't had experiences with womankind.
If you all missed it on the other page, this message is for all women - quit gettin stuck on the title of the post. Its about the lack of good teachings by knowledgable women. I do my job by letting my boys know whats up so they at least know what the right decision is (that way they can never say they didnt Know right).
You all can argue the small points, but my focus stays on the missing words. Wheres the posts helping women be the best they can be? Naw, all I see is sh*t about small d*cks and cute guys. I'll continue to be thought provoking and challenging for my brothers, but someone needs to do the same.
For all women. Whens the last time you were challenged?
"We must dissent."
We are saying the title should be changed, because 95% of the guys who have responded admit that they would never, and have never dated outside their race. So why discuss womankind if they haven't had experiences with womankind.
Thats a moot point.
Simply because they didnt start the post. I did, and I have dated outside of my race. Not selectively or with bias but with full knowledge that women arent ruled by their race or religion, but their actions.
A white girl did me just as wrong as a black girl did.
I dont have to date everyone to prove my point, I have enough people going through it right now. And Im not trying to say that all women are bad because I dont believe that. I was pointing out the fact that Ive seen less people care about the situation than do something to change it. MOREso, they make it worse, spreading lies, half truths, rumors and plain idiocy thinking that they are somehow justified through their own hurt.
Even I, with all of reason to be a player just by my pain, have chosen to be an example for not only my black brothers but for all men. I speak on the behalf of Men proudly. *smiles and bows*
Hmm this is a good topic but I havent read everything but I have alot of friends who "play" guys and are unfaithful ... Personally I would never cheat on a guy if I was in a relationship with him ... I dont have a boyfriend right now because I havent been able to find anyone who I am compatable with or who has the same intrest I do but I was talking to a friend of mine who goes to Morehouse and he explained to me that there would be alot of of guys who would be compatable with me if I were to attend Spelman but he also said that there would be alot of guys who would be unfaithful anywhere I go ... I think both male and females are equal when it comes to being dishonest but I believe there are more faithful females out there than males ... but as far as the race thing is concerned ^ I have never really dated a guy who was all black... its not that I am not interested its just where I live a LARGE majority of the African American men tend to go for white gurls but I pray that will change when I go to College because I would like to date a man who is of the same race as me :-)
after reading 4 pages, i just stopped at the 5th.... let me just say this....
it's a 2way street...... but women have more of a double standard and contradict themselves waaaaaaaaaay too much....
women can go on and on about one thing, and they are so closed-minded when they state their point of view, they don't broaden their horizons... y'all just go at one thing w/o seeing the big picture... and when y'all get in that closed-minded state of mind... it's no point in reasoning b/c y'all THINK y'all are right all the time....
NEWSFLASH: women are not right all the time... we make you think you are right just to keep your mouths shut...
The big picture in this situation is that... women can say it's revenge for all the times males do them dirty, which is true... but it's a 2-way street... women don't get caught like men do, women do things on the sneak tip, and after experiencing it a while back, are very good at it... but when a male does it, we're the worse human beings on earth, and there's no point in trying to reason... just like when one man can make a woman hurt badly... one woman can f**k up a man for life... and it's wrong for that person to go and take it out on the next person... but that's how society is... we can't change it...
*Stands back and watch all the contradictory females' jaws drop....*
Get em Dwayne.
after reading 4 pages, i just stopped at the 5th.... let me just say this....
it's a 2way street...... but women have more of a double standard and contradict themselves waaaaaaaaaay too much....
women can go on and on about one thing, and they are so closed-minded when they state their point of view, they don't broaden their horizons... y'all just go at one thing w/o seeing the big picture... and when y'all get in that closed-minded state of mind... it's no point in reasoning b/c y'all THINK y'all are right all the time....
NEWSFLASH: women are not right all the time... we make you think you are right just to keep your mouths shut...
The big picture in this situation is that... women can say it's revenge for all the times males do them dirty, which is true... but it's a 2-way street... women don't get caught like men do, women do things on the sneak tip, and after experiencing it a while back, are very good at it... but when a male does it, we're the worse human beings on earth, and there's no point in trying to reason... just like when one man can make a woman hurt badly... one woman can f**k up a man for life... and it's wrong for that person to go and take it out on the next person... but that's how society is... we can't change it...
We fail when we cease to try. Nothing is impossible if you start small, kind of like Im doing. Raising awareness...do you think this is the only forum and site that Ive been changing lives in? There is much power in truth, reasoning and speculation.
And Im not a surrealist, I just see life the way I think God would want me to. With hope.(That goes for more than just this post)
after reading 4 pages, i just stopped at the 5th.... let me just say this....
it's a 2way street...... but women have more of a double standard and contradict themselves waaaaaaaaaay too much....
women can go on and on about one thing, and they are so closed-minded when they state their point of view, they don't broaden their horizons... y'all just go at one thing w/o seeing the big picture... and when y'all get in that closed-minded state of mind... it's no point in reasoning b/c y'all THINK y'all are right all the time....
NEWSFLASH: women are not right all the time... we make you think you are right just to keep your mouths shut...
The big picture in this situation is that... women can say it's revenge for all the times males do them dirty, which is true... but it's a 2-way street... women don't get caught like men do, women do things on the sneak tip, and after experiencing it a while back, are very good at it... but when a male does it, we're the worse human beings on earth, and there's no point in trying to reason... just like when one man can make a woman hurt badly... one woman can f**k up a man for life... and it's wrong for that person to go and take it out on the next person... but that's how society is... we can't change it...
We fail when we cease to try. Nothing is impossible if you start small, kind of like Im doing. Raising awareness...do you think this is the only forum and site that Ive been changing lives in? There is much power in truth, reasoning and speculation.
And Im not a surrealist, I just see life the way I think God would want me to. With hope.(That goes for more than just this post)
i understand that... and it's good that you doing what you doing... i ain't knockin you... i'm sayin you can spread your word, and speak your mind, and change a whole bunch of lives... but as much good as you are doing for 30 people, there's gonna be them five who won't see that, or try to see it, and not reason with you... maybe i should said we can't change it, b/c we sure can... but in general, that's how society is... we can do what we can... and change many minds as we can...
