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^^^As a female and keepin it real, theres some definite truth to that, which is why Im not a huge DC fan right now. I like their old stuff much better than this new stuff.
We sometimes complain about men cheating, bad-mouthing(ie ****, hoes), and dl brothas ACTUAL things we've may have been through. Complaining about being mistreated ain't insecurity it's just venting out frustrations.
Yall complain about stuff like "yall only want thugs", "yall just want men with money", complaints that say too me that you feel unsure about something you're lacking so you want make it like it's a woman's misdeed when actually you just insecure in certain areas.
So you tellin me Im insecure cuz im not a rich ****?
No, it's not about you being insecure about not being a rich **** but it's about feeling you need to say things like that. When men say things like "women only like thugs" or "rich men", to me, a man feels insecure that what he already has ain't good enough or you feel like you have to compete. If a man was secure about getting women he wouldn't give a f*** and would think that there are plenty of women out there that he could get.
And men who say things like that let me know that they can't get a woman; so do all or most women only like thugs and rich men or is there something wrong with YOU.
Nah but when all a nig hear is "I want a ****", "I need a nig wit money", "youre too nice" it starts to get to a brotha. I mean I feel as though Im an attractive young brotha, got my head on straight, tryin to do right sure I can be an asshole or a lil cocky at times but hey. Females are just confused. Any dude can tell you that the same girls who talk about "I cant be wit you youre so nice youre like a brother to me" be the same ones callin you up all sad cuz thier dude done did them dirty.....
I won't lie, some females do some stuff like that. Key word...some...not all. Yes, females can be confused at times. But hey, aren't we all confused at times? No one is ever certain about everything that they want and in control of what happens their life. SOME men go on and on about how they want the "wifey type", but continue to mess around with loose women. That's just as big of a contradiction as all of those darn Destiny's Child songs. I don't think confusion is a gender problem. It's a human being problem.
I won't lie, some females do some stuff like that. Key word...some...not all. Yes, females can be confused at times. But hey, aren't we all confused at times? No one is ever certain about everything that they want and in control of what happens their life. SOME men go on and on about how they want the "wifey type", but continue to mess around with loose women. That's just as big of a contradiction as all of those darn Destiny's Child songs. I don't think confusion is a gender problem. It's a human being problem.
Well, I won't necessarily say that she won't get the point because she probally understands what u are saying but won't agree. Not agreeing doesn't mean she doesn't get your point
i agree. There is nothing with exchanging dialogue that consists of two different opinions. What do u expect...for Megan to say "You guys are absolutely correct! Why have i been such an idiot?!". I'm still a little confused on how she "denounced" your opinion D? :???: She didn't agree with it, but i don't think she denounced it.
i never said that... i'm just saying she shoots down everything i say in particular... i ain't say she had to agree... but damn, it seems like when i have a point of view to make... she basically shoots me down... i say it's a two way street, she makes it seem like i don't know anything about anything... so like i said... i'm done...
Well, I won't necessarily say that she won't get the point because she probally understands what u are saying but won't agree. Not agreeing doesn't mean she doesn't get your point
i agree. There is nothing with exchanging dialogue that consists of two different opinions. What do u expect...for Megan to say "You guys are absolutely correct! Why have i been such an idiot?!". I'm still a little confused on how she "denounced" your opinion D? :???: She didn't agree with it, but i don't think she denounced it.
i never said that... i'm just saying she shoots down everything i say in particular... i ain't say she had to agree... but damn, it seems like when i have a point of view to make... she basically shoots me down... i say it's a two way street, she makes it seem like i don't know anything about anything... so like i said... i'm done...and if you even read in my latest post... i did apologize... i was tryna get the last word, like Tiphani said.... so i apologized, and left it alone... then here someone else come saying something... i apologized... i don't know what the hell i'm saying according to you and her... so i'll just shut up... that'll make y'all happy, won't it?
^Sweety you just a little paranoid cause I wasn't even directing any of my comments to you, I was speaking generally; this ain't even your post, so I don't see how I "shot" you down. I simply responded to your views.
It's not that serious, I thought we were just having a discusssion but I see that you were having an argument. Hopefully, my views don't even relate to you, so you shouldn't even take it that personally. Take a chill pill dude.
*Remind me never to respond to Dwayne's comments.
