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i would like to say that this entire thread is really hilarious. some of you guys are really missing the ponit. respect was the issue of this topic, not judgement. the two dont always go hand and hand... get it together guys.
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i would like to say that this entire thread is really hilarious. some of you guys are really missing the ponit. respect was the issue of this topic, not judgement. the two dont always go hand and hand... get it together guys.
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This thread is about judging whether this woman deserves respect.... :???: .
Is she looks like a hoe...most likely she is one. Why dress the part if you're not one? All I can say is that I would beat my daughter, sister, cousin's...whoever's **** if they dressed like that.
everyone who dresses like this is not a "hoe". just like everyon who dresses like a **** is not a ****. YOU can not determine who deserves respect. YOU are nobody.... "cause I said so." brotha please...
you didn't say i was nobody last night in bed...
you ****, if you were smart enough, you'd know that was sarcasm...i'm just saying that's how it works in the world...you dress and act like a ****, you gonna get treated like a **** (not considered for a job)...you dress and act like a hoe, you're gonna get treated like a hoe (barked at by a bunch of guys)...
like i said, i'm not saying go out of your way to mistreat these people, but i'm saying they should not be surprised if it happens to them...
and i can't believe i actually have to say this but:
is it right? no...but does it happen? yes... can we change it? i don't see it coming...
the best way for these cats to not be treated like that is to not dress that way in the first dayum place...and if you do get called a ho or a ****, then don't complain because you asked for it...
dammit, is what i'm saying making any sense??? why do college kids try to think so dayum hard...why am i even explaining this, yall know this really goes on in the world...you dress a certain way, you gonna get treated a certain way....why is this even being aurgued? i think yall are just trying to find some topic to discuss or something...
smh
*clicks "stop watching topic" buttun*...8-) (nessa)
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i would like to say that this entire thread is really hilarious. some of you guys are really missing the ponit. respect was the issue of this topic, not judgement. the two dont always go hand and hand... get it together guys.
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This thread is about judging whether this woman deserves respect.... :???: .
ok sedi, thats not what i meant. Ex: I can see the way a woman is dressing and automatically be like, "hmm. i guess she's a hoe." In most cases of you guys cases, this will affect how you treat her. What I'm saing is that it shouldn't. I can think she is a hoe but still give her respect. Sooooo, like I said before gentleman, I think some of you guys are missing the point.
^^^i don't think anyone said to go out of your way to disrepect them....wait...lemme read back...
but i was saying that they shouldn't be surprised if they get disrepected because of the way they're dressed...you dress like a ho, you probably gonna get treated like one 8-) (nessa)
i think what the wire is tryna say is that(and i agree with this too) dont go out of your way to disresect someone who dresses like this because i am not the type of person to do that.i think hes saying that for the women who dress like that, dont be surprised if it happens because there are some people out there who do go out of their way to disrespect people lke that and is it right??no...but like chris said earlier, why dress like that in the first place if you are not that type of person...yououwldnt expect to see a classy lady wearing somethin like that....
i think what the wire is tryna say is that(and i agree with this too) dont go out of your way to disresect someone who dresses like this because i am not the type of person to do that.i think hes saying that for the women who dress like that, dont be surprised if it happens because there are some people out there who do go out of their way to disrespect people lke that and is it right??no...but like chris said earlier, why dress like that in the first place if you are not that type of person...yououwldnt expect to see a classy lady wearing somethin like that....im enjoying this discussion...
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