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Dating Up Posted on 09-17-2007
C Nels

Keeping it simple... Ladies, do you find yourself dating up in age? Is there a minimum or "ceiling" for a guys age in order for you to date them?
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ThatClassyGirl216 replied on 09-17-2007 10:54PM [Reply]
even though I'm not "DATING" anymore...I really didn't date anybody more than a year younger than me (and ONLY if they were REALLY mature!)... the oldest? Well since my parents are 7 years apart, 7 years older was my limit!!!!
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C Nels replied on 09-18-2007 08:35AM [Reply]
Just an FYI... I was just browsing CNN.com and they have a "Quick Vote" poll going on right now "Is a 10-year age difference between partners OK?" Currently the poll stands at... Yes - 91% - 31133 No - 9% - 3205 Total Votes: 34338
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ThatClassyGirl216 replied on 09-18-2007 07:25PM [Reply]
I mean is that really surprising though? Not really...it seems that us females tend to mature quicker than our male counterparts, so we don't want to date guys our age. And I know I don't want to put up with baby mama drama or other BS, so its of no surprise that my fiance is 4 years older than me...when I was dating though, the minimum ceiling age was like 23, 24 and at the time I was 20...I've only dated one guy my age and it was crazy...so I never did that again lol
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t2dakwont replied on 09-26-2007 02:29AM [Reply]
either my age or older but not by more than about 3 years. ive found that younger guys are ok but if he's still in high school and ur in college then dont even bother...he wont understand where ur coming from at all
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evy08 replied on 09-26-2007 10:10PM [Reply]
I'm still in high school and I "dated" a sophomore in college for a hot second. I don't think I'd go over 3 years however. When guys tend to have a bigger range in age difference, I seem to get that whole "I'm older, so it would behoove you to acknowledge this and take everything I say/do for what it is" . Maybe that's just my little experience, but I stop at 3 years. Once I'm older this will probably change though.
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Sister Tamara from Davenport, IA replied on 09-27-2007 04:03AM [Reply]

C_Nels wrote:
Just an FYI... I was just browsing CNN.com and they have a "Quick Vote" poll going on right now "Is a 10-year age difference between partners OK?" Currently the poll stands at... Yes - 91% - 31133 No - 9% - 3205 Total Votes: 34338
PRAISE THE LORD!!! I don't think that ten years is a big difference depending on the individuals. Some people can handle a gap like that and some can't. When I was dating the youngest I dated was 4 years younger than me and the oldest was either 8 or 9 years older than me. I dated the younger one first and when that didn't work I tried someone older and guess what??? That didn't work either. They both acted the same, so you can't base everything on age!!!
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Sister Tamara from Davenport, IA replied on 09-27-2007 04:18AM [Reply]

C_Nels wrote:
Keeping it simple... Ladies, do you find yourself dating up in age? Is there a minimum or "ceiling" for a guys age in order for you to date them?
PRAISE THE LORD!!! F.Y.I...when it comes to females, there's no such thing as keeping it simple. We know too many words!!! LOL
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C Nels replied on 09-27-2007 11:59PM [Reply]
Sister Tamara wrote:
PRAISE THE LORD!!! F.Y.I...when it comes to females, there's no such thing as keeping it simple. We know too many words!!! LOL
lol I know ya'll do. I was keeping my question simple. ...and why you bringin up old stuff?! lol
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Sister Tamara from Davenport, IA replied on 09-28-2007 02:02AM [Reply]

C_Nels wrote:
lol I know ya'll do. I was keeping my question simple. ...and why you bringin up old stuff?! lol
PRAISE THE LORD!!! To answer your question of "why???" Well, right now all I have is old stuff!!! :-)
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