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I Can't Go For That! Posted on 10-17-2007
C Nels

Since it seems like controversy gets ya'll talkin up in here... Full Intercourse? Him only receiving oral? Him only giving oral? Naked Twister? Strip Poker? __________? If your man cheats on you, what would you cut him loose for doing? Is there anything he could do and you let it pass? What would be your justification making either decision? Does the time that you've spent in your relationship come into play at all? Is there a statute of limitations on cheating? "But baby, this was 3 years ago!"
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ecepeda from Hialeah, FL replied on 10-17-2007 09:50AM [Reply]

You can forgive a man for a lot of things but getting a woman pregnant is just crossing the line.
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C Nels replied on 10-17-2007 10:32AM [Reply]
ecepeda wrote:
You can forgive a man for a lot of things but getting a woman pregnant is just crossing the line.
Are you saying that as long as the other women doesn't come up pregnant, you'll forgive him or don't want to know about it?
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ecepeda from Hialeah, FL replied on 10-17-2007 10:45AM [Reply]

C_Nels wrote:
Are you saying that as long as the other women doesn't come up pregnant, you'll forgive him or don't want to know about it?
It all depends on the situation, and the length of the relationship, what previous problems we've had, but pregnancy just does it for me. I let go no matter what. I mean, other things come into play as well but I can't say it all here. I end up finding out about everything anyway. Every woman is different. I tolerate alot, and sometimes it's not good but I can't help it. When I snap and get fed up, you'll never get me back. I trust men, more than I should maybe, but we're both adults and what is the point of being together if we're doubting eachother and not trusting one another. It's pointless.
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replied on 11-30-2007 08:45PM [Reply]
I'm a virgin waiting until marriage. When I get married, and my husband even attempts to cheat on me. I'll take him to court. A marriage lisense is a contract by law. So if he cheats, technically, he's breaking the law. And he WILL pay. I won't be the only one that's broken hearted. Forget about "love" and "trust". After he cheated, there would no longer be any of that. Just settlements to take care of. So to answer your question...No, I do not tolerate cheating. At all. No matter how long we've been in the "relationship". If he's cheating, there is no relationship. It's all a lie.
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replied on 12-02-2007 06:12PM [Reply]
e_ashworthkerry_e wrote:
I'm a virgin waiting until marriage. When I get married, and my husband even attempts to cheat on me. I'll take him to court. A marriage lisense is a contract by law. So if he cheats, technically, he's breaking the law. And he WILL pay. I won't be the only one that's broken hearted. Forget about "love" and "trust". After he cheated, there would no longer be any of that. Just settlements to take care of. So to answer your question...No, I do not tolerate cheating. At all. No matter how long we've been in the "relationship". If he's cheating, there is no relationship. It's all a lie.
i think its easier said than done. everybody says initially "once he cheats its over" but when the situation presents itself its harder to do. so as far as bein in a marriage i cant see anyone bein that quick to call it quits...no matta how pissed they r.
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replied on 12-04-2007 10:14AM [Reply]
C_Nels wrote:
Since it seems like controversy gets ya'll talkin up in here... Full Intercourse? Him only receiving oral? Him only giving oral? Naked Twister? Strip Poker? __________? If your man cheats on you, what would you cut him loose for doing? Is there anything he could do and you let it pass? What would be your justification making either decision? Does the time that you've spent in your relationship come into play at all? Is there a statute of limitations on cheating? "But baby, this was 3 years ago!"
Wow. Just wow. Honestly speaking, if a guy cheats on me just once, there's probably very few reasons I would let him get away with it (i.e.: drunkeness, general lapse of sanity...). So, there is no real statute of limitations for me, it's either you walk with me, or don't walk at all...
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SuperFly replied on 12-04-2007 09:42PM [Reply]
You know, y'all talk a big friggin game. "Oh hewl nawl, I would NOT let that nukka get away with it." "I'll leave him on the SPOT!" And all that other jazz, but more times than not, I see yet another female with some punk ass that can't keep his shifter in neutral.
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KaliBabi replied on 01-23-2008 10:01PM [Reply]
The last guy i was with cheated on me. We stayed together for about a year after he cheated. That was because he came to me and told me what he had done and that he was sorry for what he did, so I forgave him. I admit that after he told me it was hard to fully trust him again, but with time I did. To me it depends on your situation and what u can tolerate.
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Jamaican Shawty replied on 01-23-2008 10:29PM [Reply]
You know something recently I have seen some beautiful marriages/relationships face the issue of cheating and I thought about what I would do in that situation if before that my relationship was more than fulfilling and I have changed my opinion on what I would do. Instead of making hasty decisions about it I would weigh the good and the bad and the love we share and if my hubby admits he was wrong and tells me himself instead of me hearing it from someone else that would help a lot. If it is worth it I would work through our issues with him. My close b0y-as-a-friend told me sometimes men cheat but that does not mean he doesnt love his significant other or has any less of a feelings for them but lust gets the better side of them. I guess what doesnt break the relationship can make it strong or worse. So to answer the question i dont condone of cheating but if the relationship is worth it and he is worth it I will make an effort to pull through it.
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