Greek aspirations should be kept to yourself because its not an issue that you discuss with others...its some sort of "unwritten rule." And largely because people have messed themselves up by talking too much...
im not a greek though, but another piece of advice is to RESEARCH the organization
dont try to strive for it just because "its the hypest on campus" or you think that just "your sparkling personality will get you in" thats superficial reasons....you shouldnt pledge and sacrifice to something ya didnt know about and research lol
im not a greek though, but another piece of advice is to RESEARCH the organization
dont try to strive for it just because "its the hypest on campus" or you think that just "your sparkling personality will get you in" thats superficial reasons....you shouldnt pledge and sacrifice to something ya didnt know about and research lol
Don't EVER bad talk an organization to anyone. You never know who your talking to. If you ABSOLUTELY have to ask a Greek something (appropriate) about their org., come correct with respect and you will receive respect. And if anyone ask what your aspirations are, just say its none of their business, they don't need to know.
Don't EVER bad talk an organization to anyone. You never know who your talking to. If you ABSOLUTELY have to ask a Greek something (appropriate) about their org., come correct with respect and you will receive respect. And if anyone ask what your aspirations are, just say its none of their business, they don't need to know.
or you can do like me and just say you're not sure yet.......but let me enlighten
With pan hel, better yet all greek organizations, whether they are pan hel or not, discretion is the key.....but discret.....if you're running around talking about wha tyou wanna do, they see right there that if you were on lin eyou'd have a problem with discretion.......also, they do not like bug a boos.....the thing is, you can ask them questions.....respectful low key questions....but do ask them a question eveery hour on the hour about themself, their frat, the sistahs or bruhs, if you gonna ask questions, adn things that they have no problems asking...like the principles their frat is based on.
I'm greek, not pan hel greek, but greak (ALPHA PHI OMEGA....CO-ED), and I knwo I hate it when people ask me 101 questions about me and my bruhs (Coed frats call everyone bruhs) adn out frat.....9 times outta 10 they can find most of the info on teh national website....
If you wanna be down with a certain frat ot soror, attend there events, befriend the members genuinely, and research............
Let's keep it real... E'rythang at Howard has PROCESS (membership intake/pledging.. whatever YOU want to call it) I mean, we had initiation for choir.. LOL
So as a general rule, don't run off at the mouth about anything you want to do, be it Gentlemen of DREW or Flashy Flags or Campus Pals.. Whutever..
