Would you ever go with a girl that used to get flipped, even though she has changed her ways? For those that don't know what I am talkin about...I am talkin about the ones who used to have their share of "fun" maybe a few months ago or years ago, whether they had a lot of partners or just a few. I know that at FAMU, there are a lot of girls who may be girlfriend quality when they are juniors and seniors, but when they were freshmen, they may have been the ones who were allllways at the Kappa or Omega house gettin theirs. There are some that may not have done much, but the rumors got blown outta proportion, but then there were those that were damn near proud about what they used to do.
So would you ever go with one of these types of females..whether it's right now, or if it was a few years later when you were out of college? Would you forgive them for what they did in the past and be cool with them now because they are different, or would you write em off for what they did back then?
id take a little while longer to commit to the former jumpoff, but im a forgiving person... and if shes worth it, ill find a way to overlook her former ways.
nope once a jumpoff always a jumpoff even if the jumpoff-ness goes into hiding/retirement.....something will make her eventually do it again....but nowadays u never kno who is a jumpoff thats y u cant trust every female u dont know her past...
nope once a jumpoff always a jumpoff even if the jumpoff-ness goes into hiding/retirement.....something will make her eventually do it again....but nowadays u never kno who is a jumpoff thats y u cant trust every female u dont know her past...
you might say the past is the past, and it will be good for a while, but its true, she WILL eventually go back to her ways, whether its in 40 years or 4 days, its gonna happen, just a matter of when
I couldn't do it. Honestly, I wouldn't respect her enough, even if she had changed her ways. I don't think i could ever get past it in the back of my mind... it's just too dirty.
May I defend some of these jumpoffs? Y'all don't know how tempting it is to be in the KAPsi house or the Que house on that first week of school.. There is a big allure to the thoguht that a older guy might want you until you realize exactly what he wants you for... A lot of times, the upperclassmen don't tell the frosh about what goes down, so they think they are supposed to get into stuff like that.... I think that most j.o's can change.. a lot of times... the ****you do in the first week can tarnish your rep for a good couple of years.. also, if those stories get exaggerated, it doesn't help much either.. I knew not to go "upstairs" and I always had my cup of nupe juice TO GO.. I wasn't there to get turned out, but merely there for the party.... I always left when the situation started gettin a bit too much of a FUCC or LEAVE...
There is a big difference in the girls who got turned out the first week and then were straight and the girls who continually **** themselves.. As for the latter, she'd do that ****again in a heartbeat... LEAVE HER AS$ ALONE
That is very interesting. That is how I feel on one side of the debate. At the same time, most dudes in college have too big of egos to actually go with a girl who may have done a lil bit of somethin in a frat house, mainly because they will feel stupid when people clown em for wifin somebody that some dudes she met the first nite ran thru her, even if she was young and dumb. I know that there are a few girls that I was interested in, but then I'd hear reports from different people about how they did this and that with different dudes/frats, and I'd be like ahh hell nah nevermind. So I donno how I'd react if I was talkin to a female and found out she did somethin like that. She'd probably come with the arguement about how she was young dumb and that was in the past, and it would probably depend on how much I was feelin her to whether I would still talk to her or not.
