Ya'll know what is frustratin' as hell...
Okay...there's this girl @ work who 4 all the days of training, we sat by each other. She was mad cool, we conversed & whatnot...come 2 find out, we went 2 the same middle school 4 my 7th grade year, her 8th...
Aiight, so she was nice & friendly...she had this homegirl who was also trainin' w/ us...but wasn't sittin' beside or even near her for the majority of the training...
But during the breaks - whenever they'd get to talk - & ever since, seems like her homegirl be givin' me the EVIL eye, right...
& i'm like WTH?! i mean, okay...if she just has that "mean @$$/attitude" expression on her face by nature ('cuz I know people who just look mean as hell that when they're not laughing or whateva)...but there is ALSO the chance that she is really trippin' in her head that me & her homegurl were just being cool towardz each other - not tight or even close...just that we speak when we see each other...ya know, CORDIAL..
but i HATE when females think u're try steal, step in on, or WHATEVA, their friendships w/ other females...
i REALLY experienced this ish mainly back in tha 1st semester of my freshman year....i'm a naturally friendly person, y'know...i looove meetin' new people - male AND female....Black, White, Hispanic; young, old; WHATEVA...i can always use a new friend and/or acquaintance...i mean, thas just how i AM...
& I remember during that period, I'd just become cool w/ different females...but there was always that one homegurl they were MAD cool w/ (maybe a best friend from high school...or even their roommate they just met when they got 2 school) who would act shady, sometimes rude, & just DUMB-actin'...wheneva I'd chill w/ them 2gether...
just don't understand why some femalez gotta be like that....c, thas why i luv havin' male acquaintances....don't gotta deal w/ that petty CRAP w/ dudez :roll:
lol...I know what you mean....I remember back in middle school there were 2 best friends...well myself and one of the best friends were starting to become cool and hanging out more...Yet she wasnt neglecting her other friend at all, she just wasnt with her ALL the time like she was b4...anyway her friend came up to both of us during recess crying sayin since her best friend started hanging out with me she doesnt ever chill with her like she used too...and blah blah blah. So I was like I didnt know I was " stealin her from you. " Her friend of course thought she was bing ridiculous about the situation its just the point of me" takinge her best friend away " as she called it...lol...WHATEVER..so I understand what you mean. Females in general tend to be very territorial when it comes to relationships with men, and just their homegirls...We dont like a bit of attention off us and we sure as hell dont like to share it...So yeah the problem definitely lies within us...but I am closer to my homeboys anyway and they dont trip off stuff like that so I dont even care about it....
stuff like that happen all the time....i'm like you jameya...i'm real friendly...folk be thinkin 'she ain't finna get my b/f'...and i'm like i could really give a RAT'S **** about your b/f...i'm just showing a lil southern hospitality
unfortunately that's just how alot females are, that's why i ain't got time for them, i'd rather chill with a dude over a female anyday, unless its my best friend or sumthin like that... :arrow:
Wow, I have only heard stories about "territorial females", but it's never actually happened to me. :lol: That's sort of wierd... seriously. I mean, who gets territorial over a friend, who, might I add, is not an object, but an actual person? I could see little pangs of jealousy here and there, but that should make you want to go out and get NEW friends.
On the other hand... this doesn't make me dislike females. Just like I said in the other room about females hanging with dudes... I hang with only one type of people basically: goofy males AND females. Don't any of us have time for dumb Sh*t like fighting over who you walking with.If someone came up to us crying, we would laugh in their face, and like, point or something. Get a life. :roll:
