Aight fellaz, help a brotha out here. I'm from NJ, and yall women down
here (looking all good and everything) have brought me to a problem.
Most of the women at these hbcu's are used to getting holla-ed at left & right, so how would you let a girl know that you're REALLY interested in her, and not just trying to holla at her like the rest of the guys, before she blows you off as just another guy holla-ing at her for her number?
And while you're at it...find out why guys try to initiate conversation with "Shorty" and "Ma." What ever happened to "Hi my name is ____. What's yours?" :roll:
It's all in the approach my ****. You gotta approach a woman so you let her know tha you ain't like the rest of dem **** off the street that be approachin her. It don't matter what you look like or how strong ya game is, if you come at her respectfully, she'll be less inclined to play you, and you'll have made that bangin first impression. If she still ain't feelin you don't sweat it. You came at her correct.
It's all in the approach my N*gga. You gotta approach a woman so you let her know tha you ain't like the rest of dem **** off the street that be approachin her. It don't matter what you look like or how strong ya game is, if you come at her respectfully, she'll be less inclined to play you, and you'll have made that bangin first impression. If she still ain't feelin you don't sweat it. You came at her correct.
seven simple words... come correct or don't come at all...
seriously... i just think some dudes can really come at a female correctly... they just so busy tryna show out for their boys or whatever... so they just act a straight fool... but if they can have a civilized conversation, it goes a long way.... if you can just stop a girl, and formally introduce yourself, and present yourself in a good manner in the first 5-10 mins... it goes a good way
Look her in her eyes when you talk to her...but don't give her that "I wanna go ****" look, I hate that! Just make sure she knows that you're really interested in her. Lookin into a person's eyes can tell you a lot about them...make sure yours tell her that you're not jus collectin numbers and that you really wanna get to know her.
one piece of advice:
never let a gurl (especially in da ATL) see ya **** is thirsty. if she let u hit under a weeks time, u are not the first and if u think she gone be faithful, u in for a big surprise.... tha more u make it look like u aint nervous, and make ur game seem natural, tha more better off ull be. also find out what she like before u open ya big **** mouth n say somethin that would potentially be a major turn off for her.
And while you're at it...find out why guys try to initiate conversation with "Shorty" and "Ma." What ever happened to "Hi my name is ____. What's yours?" :roll:
Preach girl... i wanna kno the answer to this too !!! :evil:
