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Can she be too pretty? Posted on 12-04-2004
melle_mel
Minneapolis, MN
Why is it that men sometimes shy away from women who are very attractive (I'm talking stunning/dazzling not just pretty) and confident, carrying herself well and with class? Is gorgeous too beautiful? Is it intimidating? Are they afraid of rejection? What's up?
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replied on 12-04-2004 04:26PM [Reply]
Personally, if a woman is beautiful to the point where I feel as if she walks down the street and several dudes gonna holla constantly then Imma definately shy away from her.
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melle_mel from Minneapolis, MN replied on 12-04-2004 05:16PM [Reply]
Thanks for replying. I'm not talking about the cute girls. Maybe more like the icon you spoke of, I guess. I am feelin y'all, but worrying about other men tryin to holla sounds like a personal problem to me. I mean, if she'd let another dude game her then she's not worth your time, and that should have been established prior to any commitment. And if that's the case, I'm not talking about her, either. This type has her mind right. Ya feel me. And though not all pretty women are stuck up, I know that some are and I can't stand that. No matter how attractive you are, if you have a ugly-a** attitude, you're ugly and need to learn humility. I don't know how y'all deal with it. Thanks again 4 your insight.
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laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 12-04-2004 10:42PM [Reply]

No. No female is too pretty to holla at or have a relationship with. I talk to the pretty ones like I would talk to the ugly ones. If I don't talk to em some other dude may. And I'd rather increase my odds of being the one on the phone with her later that night.
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In Rod We Trust replied on 12-05-2004 12:45AM [Reply]
melle_mel wrote:
Why is it that men sometimes shy away from women who are very attractive (I'm talking stunning/dazzling not just pretty) and confident, carrying herself well and with class? Is gorgeous too beautiful? Is it intimidating? Are they afraid of rejection? What's up?
Hell yea its intimidating
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replied on 12-05-2004 02:17PM [Reply]
laidbackfella wrote:
No. No female is too pretty to holla at or have a relationship with. I talk to the pretty ones like I would talk to the ugly ones. If I don't talk to em some other dude may. And I'd rather increase my odds of being the one on the phone with her later that night.
cosigns... and some of the pretty ones may think something is wrong with them because most of the dudes she comes in contact with are intimidated by her.
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replied on 12-05-2004 07:50PM [Reply]
Shoya_Star wrote:
lol am i the only one, but that was kinda sweet in a weird type of wa :lol: awwwwww @ chad's beauty shell
lol, I thought so too
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NeoSoulBrotha replied on 12-05-2004 09:50PM [Reply]
I'll make it short and sweet. Bad experiences. For most guys, the pattern they've experienced: She's Fine = She thinks she is better than you = Rejection Therefore, we don't bother. Not to say that there's not good one's out there who are really attractive, but many females take it to their head. If you make it a point to show yourself as approachable, then your problem will disappear. Holla!
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MidWestGentleman from Detroit, MI replied on 12-06-2004 11:55AM [Reply]

if a see a fine azz girl walkin down the street, i would mos def stay away from her cuz the generalization is that she thinks shes better than u and why go through the time and trouble of talking to her when u already know the result about 95% of the time?
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laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 12-06-2004 12:13PM [Reply]

detmi313 wrote:
if a see a fine azz girl walkin down the street, i would mos def stay away from her cuz the generalization is that she thinks shes better than u and why go through the time and trouble of talking to her when u already know the result about 95% of the time?
Because of that 5%. Why focus on the negative if there is a glimmer of positive in the situation? Perhaps they feel that they are better than you cuz that's what you feel from the jump and furthermore show by a timid and reluctant approach. No woman wants or appreciates a lukewarm approach. Thoughts support beliefs. Beliefs supports attitudes. Attitudes support behavior. Results of your behavior reinforce thoughts either positively or negatively. Do all of you fellas feel that glass is half empty?
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