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Who's in the wrong? Posted on 01-15-2005
Kinkee

Here is the story. I know this girl and her bf that have been talking since 2003. They have had some serious falling outs in this period. She has insecurities and feel that she can't trust him. But the nucca loves her and would do anything in this world to show it to her. So when they get into arguments she runs to some other nucca for comfort. Only to come running back to to her bf. During a certain period, she with this cut buddy and lying about it. Leaving her man in the dark and not trying to open up to him. So after she drops the cut buddy somehow she finds out that her bf has been talking to other girls. So to avoid an agrument she breaks up with him. But who is in the wrong? The girl for not letting her man be there for her or the nucca trying to find someone else that will act right?What are your opinions?
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Focused247 replied on 01-16-2005 01:07AM [Reply]
They're BOTH at fault for no communication...BUT home girl didnt appreciate him which drove him to tryna find a new girl. So I feel she's more at fault.
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AggieSweetie07 replied on 01-16-2005 02:32AM [Reply]
Focused247 wrote:
They're BOTH at fault for no communication...BUT home girl didnt appreciate him which drove him to tryna find a new girl. So I feel she's more at fault.
\ true true
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La replied on 01-16-2005 10:37AM [Reply]
They both wrong and trifin....they BOTH cheating and going to someone else for comfort...What's a relationship without communication? :?
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Kinkee replied on 01-16-2005 05:25PM [Reply]
Some people just don't listen to their bf/gf or their friends that try to help them out.
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replied on 01-17-2005 12:00PM [Reply]
Lady_ J wrote:
They both wrong and trifin....they BOTH cheating and going to someone else for comfort...What's a relationship without communication? :?
what she said
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boygimmedat from South Orange, NJ replied on 01-17-2005 02:12PM [Reply]

AggieSweetie07 wrote:
Focused247 wrote:
They're BOTH at fault for no communication...BUT home girl didnt appreciate him which drove him to tryna find a new girl. So I feel she's more at fault.
\ true true
cosigns.....it took me a long time to realize that my boyfriend was actually there for me and listened to everything i had to say and just recently something was going wrong in my life and i was down and wouldnt tell him and he was mad he was like after 4 yrs u cant talk to me.....but i broke down and told him and i felt a lot better......she was mos def in the wrong cuz if u have a man that will show u how much he loves u then you have yourself a good man....and good men r hard to find :?
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BabyGurl609 from Willingboro, NJ replied on 01-18-2005 10:16AM [Reply]
Actually the gyrl is in the wrong. When you don't have the communication that is needed to have a realistic relationship it's going to fall apart within a matter of time. Since she was in the relationship with dude she should've been able to open up to him and if not then she didn't need to be with him. Me speaking from experience: When you have a good man that is there for you even if you need a shoulder or ear to lend then you should also be there to provide the situation. Because most of the times it's the MEN who are portraying the insecurity role and we FEMALES get beside. But in this case the dude should'nt have went and talked to otha females as a resut BUT... leaving her alone would've been sufficient enough!
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In Rod We Trust replied on 01-18-2005 10:27AM [Reply]
Focused247 wrote:
They're BOTH at fault for no communication...BUT home girl didnt appreciate him which drove him to tryna find a new girl. So I feel she's more at fault.
FACT :arrow:
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ThatClassyGirl216 replied on 01-18-2005 11:18AM [Reply]
asugrl06 wrote:
AggieSweetie07 wrote:
Focused247 wrote:
They're BOTH at fault for no communication...BUT home girl didnt appreciate him which drove him to tryna find a new girl. So I feel she's more at fault.
\ true true
cosigns.....it took me a long time to realize that my boyfriend was actually there for me and listened to everything i had to say and just recently something was going wrong in my life and i was down and wouldnt tell him and he was mad he was like after 4 yrs u cant talk to me.....but i broke down and told him and i felt a lot better......she was mos def in the wrong cuz if u have a man that will show u how much he loves u then you have yourself a good man....and good men r hard to find :?
So True...I'm STILL having this problem but I'm getting better at letting my man know how I feel cause he's not a mind reader and he wants to be there for me, he's got my back. AND ur right...good men ARE hard to find! So true...I'm STILL having this problem, of being able to tell my boyfriend exactly how I feel but I'm getting better at it cause I KNOW he's got my back...I'm d
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