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why?! Posted on 01-18-2005
fyne_dyme2005

why are girls so mean to eachother? this is where this question comes from. I am currently a highschool senior. I have been to 3 different highschools in the 4 year period. my 9th grade year i lived outside of sacramento. i first had that "new girl" status( you know when guys are curios because its a new girl so they race to see who can get at her first). along the way mayeb the first day of school i dont know when it began there was always a few girls who hated me. i was quiet at first until i got more comfortable. ther was always some girl who wanted to fight me over some boy that i didnt even know existed. along the waay i managed to make 1 good friend that i could actually trust. i literally felt like i was thrown in a tank full of Piranhas. the piranha being the random girl saying things about me or wanting to beat me up. or the boys trying to get into my pants. so my 9th grade year i got really good grades because i just focused on school. wasnt to worried about kickin it. sophomore and jr year move back to seattle. went to a new school. Never got into any problems that i didnt get myself into. I made a few faulty friends, but then i learned the way of my errors. was involved in varsity cheer and volleyball. i made some good friends and i met someone that i love alot and am currently still with. Here i am senior year living in Arizona. I live in a small town with a not so big black population(just enough to get by). Mostly Mexican Americans and Whites. I had that "new girl status" agian. people had heard about me before i kenw abou them. decided im gonna keep to myself and only speak with those who engage in conversation with me. maybe that will keep me out of the horrible year i had in the 9th grade. I was **** wrong. although no one threatens to beat me up this one particular group of girls cant stand me. they are all african american. why?! those are suppose to be the ones who understand me the most. they constantly talk about me because i end up hearing about it through random underclassmen who happen to be sittin by them in that particular class. or i'll hear it from the african american boys. i havent said a negative thing about anyone at school. i played volleyball and was mvp and captain. Im involved in DECA( a nation wide sales and marketing club), im taking college classes as a senior. overal i am involved in many school functions. i think i have my head on straight especially when it comes to my goals in life. i dont sleep around(cuz u know thats when girls really start to talkin). i am respectful to all of those whof are respectful to me. Which is bassically everyone who has spoken words with me. i try not to let it get to me and i say "ok your going to graduate this year and you will never see these people again". i know this may sound like stupid highschool stuff but to me its more than that. its difficult when you have no1 on your side. and the people that u wouldnt expect these action from are the only ones doing it. its really starting to get to me, they dont know me or what im about. so why do they do it?! is there something that i am missing or dont understand? please tell me that when i go to college this will not happen to me once again. notice when guys have problems they fight and after they fight most of the time its squashed. girls carry this undying hate.. why?
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replied on 01-18-2005 02:36AM [Reply]
it's a jealousy trip...plus some girls are catty and when in groups they get amped up from their girls, and decide, "oh, she think she cute." it's all bullshyt, you wil see the same sh it happen once you come to college, and it continues the older you get. funny thing is, it's always a group that has an issue, one chick alone can't have an issue with someone else because their posse (lol) isnt there for reinforcement. thats why i try to stay around guys more, you can chill easier, if they dont have alterior motives. it is so sad... :roll:
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Princess LaRonda replied on 01-18-2005 03:15AM [Reply]
AnEpic wrote:
it's a jealousy trip...plus some girls are catty and when in groups they get amped up from their girls, and decide, "oh, she think she cute." it's all bullshyt, you wil see the same sh it happen once you come to college, and it continues the older you get. funny thing is, it's always a group that has an issue, one chick alone can't have an issue with someone else because their posse (lol) isnt there for reinforcement. thats why i try to stay around guys more, you can chill easier, if they dont have alterior motives. it is so sad... :roll:
yuuuuuuup WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD.....well its gonna be waaaaaaaay more than SEVEN strangers tho
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La replied on 01-18-2005 09:17AM [Reply]
Nahd wrote:
AnEpic wrote:
it's a jealousy trip...plus some girls are catty and when in groups they get amped up from their girls, and decide, "oh, she think she cute." it's all bullshyt, you wil see the same sh it happen once you come to college, and it continues the older you get. funny thing is, it's always a group that has an issue, one chick alone can't have an issue with someone else because their posse (lol) isnt there for reinforcement. thats why i try to stay around guys more, you can chill easier, if they dont have alterior motives. it is so sad... :roll:
yuuuuuuup WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD.....well its gonna be waaaaaaaay more than SEVEN strangers tho
lol...cosigns
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Kinkee replied on 01-18-2005 10:18PM [Reply]
AnEpic wrote:
it's a jealousy trip...plus some girls are catty and when in groups they get amped up from their girls, and decide, "oh, she think she cute." it's all bullshyt, you wil see the same sh it happen once you come to college, and it continues the older you get. funny thing is, it's always a group that has an issue, one chick alone can't have an issue with someone else because their posse (lol) isnt there for reinforcement. thats why i try to stay around guys more, you can chill easier, if they dont have alterior motives. it is so sad... :roll:
She pretty summed it up for you. That's how it is. Freshman year was crazy I almost fought my roommate and suitemate. All because of jealously. Then those broads wanted to hate on my man, cause they ain't have nobody. But yeah it is going to follow you for the rest of your life. Just keep a level head and don't let the little ****get to you.
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Buttascotch replied on 01-19-2005 12:54AM [Reply]
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Lady Invictus replied on 01-19-2005 09:41AM [Reply]
Lady_ J wrote:
Nahd wrote:
AnEpic wrote:
it's a jealousy trip...plus some girls are catty and when in groups they get amped up from their girls, and decide, "oh, she think she cute." it's all bullshyt, you wil see the same sh it happen once you come to college, and it continues the older you get. funny thing is, it's always a group that has an issue, one chick alone can't have an issue with someone else because their posse (lol) isnt there for reinforcement. thats why i try to stay around guys more, you can chill easier, if they dont have alterior motives. it is so sad... :roll:
yuuuuuuup WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD.....well its gonna be waaaaaaaay more than SEVEN strangers tho
lol...cosigns
Agreed, but just keep on being you. You are doing big things...they want to be like you and instead of trying to better themselves they take time to tear down what you have built up. When things like that happen I know that's when i'm at my best, b/c they take time to pick apart my life. Stay focused and positive you can't go wrong.
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In Rod We Trust replied on 01-19-2005 10:05AM [Reply]
some females are ****..................... and they fake....................... so they take out their insecurities on females who are ON the real................ but ummm......... yeah...................
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AggieSweetie07 replied on 01-19-2005 11:44AM [Reply]
Kinkee wrote:
AnEpic wrote:
it's a jealousy trip...plus some girls are catty and when in groups they get amped up from their girls, and decide, "oh, she think she cute." it's all bullshyt, you wil see the same sh it happen once you come to college, and it continues the older you get. funny thing is, it's always a group that has an issue, one chick alone can't have an issue with someone else because their posse (lol) isnt there for reinforcement. thats why i try to stay around guys more, you can chill easier, if they dont have alterior motives. it is so sad... :roll:
She pretty summed it up for you. That's how it is. Freshman year was crazy I almost fought my roommate and suitemate. All because of jealously. Then those broads wanted to hate on my man, cause they ain't have nobody. But yeah it is going to follow you for the rest of your life. Just keep a level head and don't let the little ****get to you.
cosigns...this is why i use to have more guy friends than girlfriends...cuz females are shady and always try to backstab....
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 01-19-2005 05:07PM [Reply]

AggieSweetie07 wrote:
Kinkee wrote:
AnEpic wrote:
it's a jealousy trip...plus some girls are catty and when in groups they get amped up from their girls, and decide, "oh, she think she cute." it's all bullshyt, you wil see the same sh it happen once you come to college, and it continues the older you get. funny thing is, it's always a group that has an issue, one chick alone can't have an issue with someone else because their posse (lol) isnt there for reinforcement. thats why i try to stay around guys more, you can chill easier, if they dont have alterior motives. it is so sad... :roll:
She pretty summed it up for you. That's how it is. Freshman year was crazy I almost fought my roommate and suitemate. All because of jealously. Then those broads wanted to hate on my man, cause they ain't have nobody. But yeah it is going to follow you for the rest of your life. Just keep a level head and don't let the little ****get to you.
cosigns...this is why i use to have more guy friends than girlfriends...cuz females are shady and always try to backstab....
True, true....I have always had problems with females. I only have like 2 close female friends and all the rest of my friends are males. Most females cannot be trusted, but don't worry about it. Just focus on what you gotta do.......this will drive them crazy because you are not feeding into all their drama and bullsh%^
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