no...lol I was just talking as if I was that female I was talking about...lol
Yeah, he's just scared of commitment. and yeah, you had me thinking you were the girl for a minute.
like everyone said, he don't want to commit, otherwise he would've been hopped on it... :arrow:
give it a little more time he will come around
CN1CE
from Brooklyn, NY
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Aug 2007
I'll say one thing. That girl must have been a dime of dimes. After 4 years and getting no where passed the friend status, he still was after it. From the situation, it sounded like he just wanted to beat. Sometimes 5 years is the waiting time.
A couple possibliities here...
1. After five years of knowing each other and nothing happening, he wrote you off as a possibility and moved on. However, he's fine with having a good friend with benefits.
2. He realized that you weren't interested in him until he had a girl, which always raises a red flag for a dude. Again, he's fine with a good friend with benefits.
3. You have a good friendship and he doesn't want the inevitable problems that come along with a relationship... in other words things are working great now so why mess with it. This is the most likely scenario.
Just my $0.02. If you want me to elaborate, I'd be glad to do so. J
I agree with Neo on this one.
Why had she become oh so interested after she found out he had a girl??? That was real shady & he knew that. Once she made that move it wasn't like he was going to say no. If anything, she just played herself in the end.