....ummm if you are not ready....you are not ready....simple as that...any man that can't wait for you...or is pressuring you is not worth it....
obviously you might feel uncomfortable...but...if you value your virginity...then you'll do anything in your power to keep it...until you are ready...
....ummm if you are not ready....you are not ready....simple as that...any man that can't wait for you...or is pressuring you is not worth it....
obviously you might feel uncomfortable...but...if you value your virginity...then you'll do anything in your power to keep it...until you are ready...
Basically.
If you're not ready to take that ride...just say NO. And if he doesn't respect that...then he is not worth the energy. And you shouldnt have to provide reasoning either. Some fools actually DO have the audacity to ask "why?" When this happens I advise that you look for the nearest exit and keep it moving.
I am about to be 19 in 2 months...am in college...and still have my V-isa. I'm not going to lie...it is hard as hell. But have faith in yourself that you will do what is best for you. And only you.
I'm a college virgin and it's not too hard considering my boyfriend goes to school back home. It's hard when I go back home because I want to, but I know I'm not ready. Don't feel pressure to do anything though, that's most important......
i'm a college/high school virgin and YES it is a challenge with all these beautiful Adonis-es walking around trying to spit(or not even trying to spit, just buying some Nachoes in the Cafe' line but lookin good nonetheless) but, if u ain't ready u ain't ready
my body's tellin me yes
but my mind, my heart, and my christian conscience tell me no
its three against one
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I'm also well..about to be a college virgin, and honestly I don't give a damn if some guy wants it cuz he's not gettin it unless I want, to and unless I'm ready. It's my virginity, not his, so why he gotta be mad for? Boy better respect my decision and my body and if not, he's not worth me or my time :x
I'm also well..about to be a college virgin, and honestly I don't give a damn if some guy wants it cuz he's not gettin it unless I want, to and unless I'm ready. It's my virginity, not his, so why he gotta be mad for? Boy better respect my decision and my body and if not, he's not worth me or my time :x
I feel ya....when you get to Hampton though, your hormones will run rapid!
well everything to say has already been said, so i'll just say this: be strong girl. you know when the right time is for you. i'm not going to start preaching and tell you to wait until you are married, but that's definately something to think about... i know that it probably won't be easy because hell, im still in highschool and it aint easy. but if you are not ready you just arent ready. dont let anybody pressure you into doing anything...
I'm also well..about to be a college virgin, and honestly I don't give a damn if some guy wants it cuz he's not gettin it unless I want, to and unless I'm ready. It's my virginity, not his, so why he gotta be mad for? Boy better respect my decision and my body and if not, he's not worth me or my time :x
Keep that attitude... Don't let any of these guys make you feel bad because of it's your body.
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