I wanted to know for my sake. How would or did you get passed the pain of someone cheating on you. Because I've hit a big **** boulder at the bottom of a rock field that that girl tossed my **** in. I guess you could call me depressed but I don't show any signs of it(visually) but mentally I'm still messed up after almost 2 years. My confindence is shot and I just really fed up with myself. So I extend my own problem to yall. I know this ain't the same **** yall are use to that I'm being right now but please bare with me.. I'll explain the whole reason why I'm like this after a few of yall post.
Well, I have been cheated on a couple of times, and I still feel the hurt after a few years myself. I juss had to deal wit it pretty much. At first I was sooo dayum mad dat I juss sat in my room and cried (from da anger), then I listened to my slow jams. Finally I discussed the situation wit da person and told dem how I felt bout thangs. Other than that I just ain't talk 2 dey **** ****. I think the reasons dat it hurt me so much was because everytime something went down it was wit sumone dat claimed to be my friend. But all in all, I juss dealt. U'll get over it when u find somebody that u care about enough to take ur mind off dat person. But I think it'll be alright. It's all about KARMA! IT DOES COME BACK AROUND!
Well, I have been cheated on a couple of times, and I still feel the hurt after a few years myself. I juss had to deal wit it pretty much. At first I was sooo dayum mad dat I juss sat in my room and cried (from da anger), then I listened to my slow jams. Finally I discussed the situation wit da person and told dem how I felt bout thangs. Other than that I just ain't talk 2 dey **** ****. I think the reasons dat it hurt me so much was because everytime something went down it was wit sumone dat claimed to be my friend. But all in all, I juss dealt. U'll get over it when u find somebody that u care about enough to take ur mind off dat person. But I think it'll be alright. It's all about KARMA! IT DOES COME BACK AROUND!
That's why you're so precatious about that guy you like.
Well, I have been cheated on a couple of times, and I still feel the hurt after a few years myself. I juss had to deal wit it pretty much. At first I was sooo dayum mad dat I juss sat in my room and cried (from da anger), then I listened to my slow jams. Finally I discussed the situation wit da person and told dem how I felt bout thangs. Other than that I just ain't talk 2 dey **** ****. I think the reasons dat it hurt me so much was because everytime something went down it was wit sumone dat claimed to be my friend. But all in all, I juss dealt. U'll get over it when u find somebody that u care about enough to take ur mind off dat person. But I think it'll be alright. It's all about KARMA! IT DOES COME BACK AROUND!
That's why you're so precatious about that guy you like.
Dat's not neccessarily true. It's sum deeper circumstances. Da ppl dat cheated were boy friends and dis guy is a close friend it aint got nuthin to do wit cheatin'.
no... that's not what I'm saying.. all I was saying is that you are a little precatious when it comes to dating and you don't want to be hurt or hurt anyone else.
no... that's not what I'm saying.. all I was saying is that you are a little precatious when it comes to dating and you don't want to be hurt or hurt anyone else.
Oh, okay, I see wut cha sayin'. yeah, I guess u can say dat. :lol:
well i gonna have to say no because i have never been in a real relationship :arrow:
well it's not bad to be in a real relationship but it could either be Damn good or horrible. The horrible ones will scar you for life but the good ones heals the scars as well as fills you with good memories for the rest of your life.
Thankfully I am able to say I have never been cheated on, but I know what it feels like to feel hurt from somebody else's actions. The only way I made it through my times when I was hurt, was just to pray about it. I don't know if you are a believer in God, but if you are, you must always remember that God will never put more on you than you can bare, and everything happens for a reason. Maybe God didn't want you to be with that person, he prolly gave you signs to leave that person, but you wanted to do things your own way. If you don't listen to God, he will make a way for you to stop and listen to him. If you don't believe in God and you don't want to hear what Im saying, the only thing I can say, is time can heal, but you can't hold on to the situation, you are going to have to get to the point where you are going to let it go, and move on with your life so that you can find the next person that you are meant to be with. Just stay strong. Holla at me, if you want to talk some more.
The key is realizing that you're not directly responsible for it. Her weakness brought about what happened, not yours.
One of two situations happened - either she was tempted, or you were not what she was looking for (which isn't an insult to you).
If she was tempted and couldn't hold back, it was because of your girl's lack of self-control.
If you weren't what she was looking for, it was because she was afraid to tell you that straight up and instead, went behind your back hoping to spare her conscience.
The bottom line is it was circumstance, not your fault. Next time, you'll be wiser to the game. It happens to all of us. Holla!
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