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When she says "But...you're like a BROTHER to me". Posted on 11-13-2005
Kool 2k6

...what do you do, personally? Do you play along with the 'friends' garbage, do you keep trying to hit (or date or what-have-you), or do you avoid her altogether? I've met too many chicks and ended being somebody gotdamn "big brother"... :x But on the flipside (so no one gets it twisted), I've had my fair share of, umm, well....interested females. Good times. Most of them just didn't work out, one way or another...or moved back home and stuff. But ladies....this big brother shyt's is for the birds. I avoid that mess like the plague. Being "big brother" or "friend"=being "useless". Discuss.
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So_Focused from Landover, MD replied on 11-15-2005 05:31PM [Reply]

lol,yall get offended by that fareal. well let me stop sayin that. :?
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saxxxmepoetically from akron, OH replied on 11-16-2005 10:48AM [Reply]

Most of the times when females say that a guy is their big brother, its either because the guy gives off that, "I think your cute, and im going to give you advice and not be jealous when you talk to another guy vibe." When you become someone that females can feel comfortable talking around thats when you fall into that big brother catergory. On the other hand... when a females calls a guy her big brother... she may just use that as a cover up, her and that guy could have a deeper connection than what most think... they may have f*cked a few times and can still be cool. It just depends on how you act with a female at initial contact that will determine if you are now going to be their big brother
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Kismet_TNT replied on 11-16-2005 04:43PM [Reply]
Kool it depends on the famale. For me personally I have never been the one to use the "big brother" phrase. But I have used the "friend" word. It's not a bad thig nor does it mean that nothing will ever come of it. Personally I would rather become real good friends with a person b4 I get with him. This will allow me to see how he treats women and get to know him on a different level. Then if or when we decide to get together on a more intimatem or what-have-u level, I will know what 2 expect. I have met a guy who I had no interest in what so ever. He was just mad cool and I loved the friendship. He was attracted to me and wanted more, but I was like no we are just friends. To make a long story short he ended up growing on me. I started to like him for more than a friend just because I got to see the type of person he really is. So Kool don't let the "friend"/"big brother" thig get in ur way. Patience is a virtue.
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replied on 11-16-2005 05:16PM [Reply]
Kismet_TNT wrote:
Kool it depends on the famale. For me personally I have never been the one to use the "big brother" phrase. But I have used the "friend" word. It's not a bad thig nor does it mean that nothing will ever come of it. Personally I would rather become real good friends with a person b4 I get with him. This will allow me to see how he treats women and get to know him on a different level. Then if or when we decide to get together on a more intimatem or what-have-u level, I will know what 2 expect. I have met a guy who I had no interest in what so ever. He was just mad cool and I loved the friendship. He was attracted to me and wanted more, but I was like no we are just friends. To make a long story short he ended up growing on me. I started to like him for more than a friend just because I got to see the type of person he really is. So Kool don't let the "friend"/"big brother" thig get in ur way. Patience is a virtue.
Hmm...
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Kismet_TNT replied on 11-17-2005 01:12AM [Reply]
Kool 2k6 wrote:
Kismet_TNT wrote:
Kool it depends on the famale. For me personally I have never been the one to use the "big brother" phrase. But I have used the "friend" word. It's not a bad thig nor does it mean that nothing will ever come of it. Personally I would rather become real good friends with a person b4 I get with him. This will allow me to see how he treats women and get to know him on a different level. Then if or when we decide to get together on a more intimatem or what-have-u level, I will know what 2 expect. I have met a guy who I had no interest in what so ever. He was just mad cool and I loved the friendship. He was attracted to me and wanted more, but I was like no we are just friends. To make a long story short he ended up growing on me. I started to like him for more than a friend just because I got to see the type of person he really is. So Kool don't let the "friend"/"big brother" thig get in ur way. Patience is a virtue.
Hmm...
Y do u say that?
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replied on 11-17-2005 01:13AM [Reply]
I can't think of any chicks who call me like a brother that I didn't pipe.
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Hahaha replied on 11-17-2005 04:09PM [Reply]
start being really really mean to her... and just when you really **** her off, do something good...i know it sounds crazy but that sh!t works.... and watch somebody say something about [sp] chavenist crap....i'm telling you for some reason, it works ALOT.
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we_ replied on 11-17-2005 05:41PM [Reply]
demmeri wrote:
start being really really mean to her... and just when you really **** her off, do something good...i know it sounds crazy but that sh!t works.... and watch somebody say something about [sp] chavenist crap....i'm telling you for some reason, it works ALOT.
This isn't something I'd recommend doing but.....whatever works for you ****
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AggieWarrior from Charlotte, NC replied on 11-17-2005 07:17PM [Reply]

i'm like the big brother to a lot of girls on campus... i could have each one of them if I really wanted to, but i have a girl, so i'm not overstepping boundaries... but sometimes girls are so comfortable w/ guys that they just want someone to talk to.... they don't like females b/c they are snitches... and some **** just don't care... so they need someone that they can confide in... sometimes you fall in that category, and then sometimes that leads to something more... you never know
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