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When dudes try to dance with you at the club... Posted on 04-11-2006

R-Tistic
Los Angeles, CA
What are we supposed to do, in your opinion? I am just curious because I've heard a large variety of responses from different females. In general, most girls seem to just dance when you "jump" behind, and most of them usually look back to see who they are dancin with and they will continue depending on how you look (I would assume) or if they know you. However, I have heard some females complain about that technique, and they get mad when dudes do that. Some of em will say that they'd prefer the dude to ask her first. It's nothin serious at all...just somethin I have been wonderin about.
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Princess LaRonda replied on 04-11-2006 12:32PM [Reply]
where i'm from you don't ask.....
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replied on 04-11-2006 05:09PM [Reply]
truthfully, it depends on how a guy looks. me and my girls got a system. if a dude come up dancing behind us, and he ****, we will either give her the "eye" meaning he's busted, or pull her away and start dancing with her. but if he cute, we give the nod of approval and all is good. and for the guys who just don't get it when u don't wanna dance with them anymore, just stop dancing, walk off, and leave them looking stupid.
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replied on 04-11-2006 05:54PM [Reply]
I be peeping that out sometime too...When I go to the club I don't dance the first hour or so...I might drink and check my surroundings...You can tell what females want to dance or which females will be dissing dudes just by observing...Don't set yourself up for failure...and don't always go after the finest female living... My friends and I have thing called "The Big Chick" dance...lol...we dance with the big girls first...then we move on to everyone else...lol...it's crazy but it works...
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R-Tistic from Los Angeles, CA replied on 04-11-2006 07:50PM [Reply]

P Harrell wrote:
I be peeping that out sometime too...When I go to the club I don't dance the first hour or so...I might drink and check my surroundings...You can tell what females want to dance or which females will be dissing dudes just by observing...Don't set yourself up for failure...and don't always go after the finest female living... My friends and I have thing called "The Big Chick" dance...lol...we dance with the big girls first...then we move on to everyone else...lol...it's crazy but it works...
****....one time me and my homeboys were at a club and it was a real big girl, and I told my homeboy to go dance wit her just to be funny. When he went up to her, she turned around and was like "NO!" and walked away! He barely ever gets that from regular girls, so he was really in shock. We know she was prolly doin it to up her confidence though.
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AggieWarrior from Charlotte, NC replied on 04-11-2006 09:20PM [Reply]

Princess LaRonda wrote:
where i'm from you don't ask.....
pretty much... i just do my thang... one thing i don't do is that if a chick is sweating from dancing so much, don't get up on her and grind some more, it will not work...
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replied on 04-11-2006 10:30PM [Reply]
R-Tistic wrote:
P Harrell wrote:
I be peeping that out sometime too...When I go to the club I don't dance the first hour or so...I might drink and check my surroundings...You can tell what females want to dance or which females will be dissing dudes just by observing...Don't set yourself up for failure...and don't always go after the finest female living... My friends and I have thing called "The Big Chick" dance...lol...we dance with the big girls first...then we move on to everyone else...lol...it's crazy but it works...
****....one time me and my homeboys were at a club and it was a real big girl, and I told my homeboy to go dance wit her just to be funny. When he went up to her, she turned around and was like "NO!" and walked away! He barely ever gets that from regular girls, so he was really in shock. We know she was prolly doin it to up her confidence though.
lol...she was probably doin it cause she didnt want yall makin a fool outta her ****, cause the first thing people do is point and laugh.
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'manda replied on 04-11-2006 10:52PM [Reply]
if he smacks my **** i'll dance wit him for a bit
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Deuce_214 from Tallahassee, FL replied on 04-12-2006 05:37PM [Reply]

Most of the time, I will just jump behind you and start dancing. It also depends on how I feel and who I am with cause that also determines how I approach the party. In Tally, it really aint that much to do so you see the same people at every party it just depends on the atmosphere. If I get dissed by a female, i move on it aint that serious. Although it is funny when a female or a group of females diss you, and then you and your homeboys just start wilin out having fun. Then, all of sudden here come them same girls that dissed you earlier and you are faced with the decision, Dance or Diss. I have had that happen and now to this day, im always being asked if i am coming to a party. PS. "The Big Chick Dance" works, esp. if you with your boys and it is a gorup of all thick girls and one big one. Start with the Big one and rotate, that way no one is left out. Big Girls need love too. Take one for the Team. lol
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AggieWarrior from Charlotte, NC replied on 04-16-2006 10:39AM [Reply]

Poody wrote:
It depends on my mood. If I'm jazzy or I'm posted up not really dancing then ask me to dance. If I'm jazzy on the dance floor or just all normal and Sh*t dancing, lol......i'll let you take my hand If I'm on the dance floor tearing dat Sh*t up you better just jump behind cuz I probably wont hear you ask me to dance and I'll be too crunk to give a fukk. Of course I'ma still look back and see what you look like, thats with anything.
:lol:
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