Ladies....are there any dudes you know - whether they be ya friends...or just acquaintances or whateva - who r MAD COOL when they're by themselves or maybe with their boyz...but when they're around their girl, they're SHADY AS HELL?!?!
this question can even be addressed 2 tha brothas when it comes 2 females & their boyfriends....
maybe some of u (ladies & fellas) actually do this...
i know 2 dudez like that....one of 'em @ least speaks when he's by himself...but when he's with his mrs., he hardly speakz ta ANYbody...
the other one is real flirtatious when he's by himself...or at least, outgoing & friendly....but don't let his chica be with him....ya lucky if ya even get a nod...
& i'm like...i understand having respect for ya significant other - i mean, whether ya with him/her or not, u shouldn't be tryna holla or get beside yourself in the 1st place b/c u're already involved....that's just common sense....
but ya don't just have to be completely shiesty about the situation when u're w/ 'em....i'm gonna need for people to start reflectin' some SECURITY!!
Yea I know a dude like that...i hated that crap. But his gurl didnt like me so i guess that gave him more of a reason to act that way!! I aiint neva did nothin to that stank heffa...she was juss mad cause me and her man were MADD COO friends!
Ya'll a trip. I just speak to both of em a few times and then ole girl realizes she has nothing to worry about so then the dude is no longer afraid to speak b/c of his jealous **** girlfriend.
Ya'll a trip. I just speak to both of em a few times and then ole girl realizes she has nothing to worry about so then the dude is no longer afraid to speak b/c of his jealous **** girlfriend.
yeah, that's how i try to be...
MOST of the couples i know...if i'm not already cool with BOTH of them....i'm cool w/ one of 'em (be it tha chica or chico), but whenever the other is around, both still act real cool & friendly....
it's just those 2 i mentioned above....
oh yeah...& this other dude who is fine as mess....he doesn't speak when he'z wit his girl...but by himself, he'z just as cool as he wanna be....
my girl knows that most of my friends came around before her... and in turn most of her's came before me...if i see someone i know, i say hey, but i also introduce her and bring her into the picture, so we all can be friends
I know a female who is like that, but i think it is because of her man. See i think they really got some serious shizznit goin on.
I really think she need to lose that brother though. From what I've heard he be beatin her ****, but like the saying goes you cant help someone that dont want to be helped.
my girl knows that most of my friends came around before her... and in turn most of her's came before me...if i see someone i know, i say hey, but i also introduce her and bring her into the picture, so we all can be friends
yeah, i notice that...
your friends r her friends, her friends r your friends, & everybody'z jus one big happy family, lol
ya'll r among tha cool couplez i know....
Sometimes its not the guys fault...men know when they're women need attention and for some people their spouses need it ALL the time *underline, bold, italicized,*EEESPECIALLY when other females are around. Its like territory and there are the ones who always feel the need to stake claim. If guys make a wrong move or do something the woman finds displeasing hes gonna be kissing **** for weeks to come for nothing. F*ck eggshells, thats hot glass.
But yeah, its to be expected. Why would you bring your girl around if you know shes going to want all that attention and you wont be able to divy up the time? I suggest letting the girls become friends on their own, asking your girl to get to know them so that there are less uncomfortable moments.
To the women....WHY YALL GOTS TO HANG on a brutha when his girlfriend is around?? Thats got to be a syndrome, I swear when me and Elizabeth (one of my Xs) were together my other friends would be like reeses monkey dangling onto me. Like sh*t you see me here, Im over here like Mase... "Why you over there lookin at me...while my girl's standin here..." :o :arrow:
my girl knows that most of my friends came around before her... and in turn most of her's came before me...if i see someone i know, i say hey, but i also introduce her and bring her into the picture, so we all can be friends
I just speak to both of em a few times and then ole girl realizes she has nothing to worry about so then the dude is no longer afraid to speak b/c of his jealous **** girlfriend.
:o :arrow:
