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Fellas, would you have a long distance relationship? Posted on 09-26-2004
Cierra_Goodies

Fellas, would you have a long distance relationship? If, so how would you go about dealing with other females around you. But, you and your girl are only few hours away.
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 09-26-2004 08:20PM [Reply]

Hey wasup? I know you are directing this question to the fellas...but as a female who is in this type of situation I just want to let you know what I think. My ex and I started back talking and he attends Auburn University where he plays football. It's hard enough he is so far away, and the fact he plays football makes me even more nervous because you know how females are. We talk a lot and we talk about everything. The suggestion I could give is to be honest. Also you have got to trust him...trust is a major factor in a long distance relationship. So if you have good communication and trust then you should be fine. Good luck.
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AggieWarrior from Charlotte, NC replied on 09-27-2004 01:05AM [Reply]

Cierra_Goodies wrote:
Fellas, would you have a long distance relationship? If, so how would you go about dealing with other females around you. But, you and your girl are only few hours away.
nope i wouldn't... they don't work... and the ones that do have a one in a million shot... but if i was in one, it's just keep the lines of communication open...
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ThatClassyGirl216 replied on 09-27-2004 01:44AM [Reply]
Cierra_Goodies wrote:
Fellas, would you have a long distance relationship? If, so how would you go about dealing with other females around you. But, you and your girl are only few hours away.
Me and my ex are talking again as well...but we have been on and off for four years...we said that we would discuss our feelings about everything when I come home in December...but he's a VERY patient guy...cause he has put up wit some stuff that most other guys wouldn't have...he and I are over 10 hours apart, so we're gonna see how this works out when we actually decide to make it official...but he trusts me always and never gets worried when I don't call...and I trust him as well...we know each other too well not to trust each other. But if there's no trust...forget about it..it won't work
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replied on 09-27-2004 07:50AM [Reply]
Me and my boyfriend are only 1hr and 45mins to 2hr hours away from each other. We communicate, but lately we have stop communicating about alot of stuff and I feel somethimg is wrong. I want to ask him what is going on, but I don't want to hear him **** and complain and saying that I'm nagging him which I don't do. I love him, but my heart is telling me that we are not going to last. I don't want to break up with him, but I really don't know what to do.
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King_J replied on 09-27-2004 10:10AM [Reply]
I would, and I am in one. I feel like it is cool cause space is good. And plus I know after college me and my girl are going to get married and all that, so it is all good right now. I just look at the long term plans, and it out weighs the short term stuff
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Kinkee replied on 09-27-2004 10:46AM [Reply]
Cierra_Goodies wrote:
Me and my boyfriend are only 1hr and 45mins to 2hr hours away from each other. We communicate, but lately we have stop communicating about alot of stuff and I feel somethimg is wrong. I want to ask him what is going on, but I don't want to hear him B*tch and complain and saying that I'm nagging him which I don't do. I love him, but my heart is telling me that we are not going to last. I don't want to break up with him, but I really don't know what to do.
Follow your heart. Your heart will never tell you wrong.
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SuperFly replied on 09-27-2004 03:45PM [Reply]
If I was in a long distance relationship, it would have to be with someone that I was involved with for a while. I would know already that I can trst her because we've been with each other for so long. If I don't feel that I can, then it will only make it easier to break up with her. With someone that I just met, there's no way of knowinf what to expect from her. I've been through this too many damn times... :roll:
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fyne_dyme2005 from Casa Grande, AZ replied on 10-02-2004 01:21AM [Reply]

i would have to say im a believer of long distance relationships and i am an example. MY boyfriend and i moved from seattle he now lives in mississippi and goes to college out there.. i moved to Arizona. We communicate all the time night and day, we write eachother, send pictures, and the trust is definately there. I am a Senior in highschool and he is a freshmen in College. MY opinion is.. if u have been together for a long time why throw it all away just because of the distance. your relationship would be a waste of time just to throw it away over an obstacle. if your both willing to go through it together and support each other... then do tha damn thang.
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DETHOTTIE from detroit, MI replied on 11-14-2004 10:37PM [Reply]

I did that this year. I was in one this year and it didn't last. At first everything was cool, it sent me his pictures of himself, letters,called me or texted me. then when he came back I wanted to see him after so long he was like he hooked up with someone else. :cry: So it's a bad idea if you can't be together at least in the same state, it's not going to work. Because you need more than communication but the actual affection and presence. It will get hard especially if you have someone keep on pursuing them. :evil:
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