i really dunno wat i would say but i would take into consideration one thing:
Time changes things...a whoole lot. picking the girl might be coo for the first few months, but a lifetime!? she could very possibly get on my damn nerves... and vice versa...spending sometime with a person can change things not everyone clicks right away, i kno there have been some people in my past who i thought were ug but after awhile, they grew on me.
just food for thought 8)