aight yall i'm serious...
i'm trying to do this whole growth n change thing before i finally leave columbia and head out to atlanta (or jacksonville)...so i dunno i was looking at my love life and realised that maybe, just maybe it might be me.
so ladies of hbcu central, i want to know would you ever date a dude like me? what do you like about demmeri? what do you hate about demmeri? what would you change? all of this is based upon my internet personality...what can i improve upon? what do i need to just let go?
and i'm serious ladies...anwer with at least 2 sentences or more. you can say whatever you want, cuss me out, i don't care...just let loose! your critisimn is welcome... i'm trying to grow n change that way i can be a complete person. cause who i am and what i am ain't working...
i need yall to help me fix it....>>(tasia)
well 1st of all, giving this thread the title that u did....makes it sound like u're a lil' more interested in "self-growth"....well yeah, self-growth...but not the kind u're talking about
but nah...seems like you would just be a friend type....because of some of the things you say and how you come off on the boards.....you say some off the wall stuff....SERIOUSLY off tha wall....i mean, i don't know how closely that resembles how u r offline....but if it is...i'd be a lil' concerned, lol....'cause you don't just say off tha wall stuff ('cause i do know people like that & that isn't necessarily a problem), but u say some seriously WEIRD off tha wall stuff....
and aside from my despise for your "prez" as a leader....you have a very peculiar and disturbing obsession with that man, lol....you've said some off tha wall stuff about him as well....
plus...i will never forget what u said about trying on women's payless shoes....that was just a little too much for me......maybe some girls wouldn't mind that, but hey.....it was a lil' funny...but definitely not attractive, lol....but that's just me...
& finally...as tiph sort of referred to in another thread....u come off as a little shallow and narrowminded, when it comes to females....as far as what u're looking for physically....u r TOO restrictive and picky....and i believe you WILL end up with someone who is the complete opposite of what u're seeking....whether you want it to happen that way or not....
and even how i've seen u pass judgment on certain females up here....
like i said....not sure how much of the "hbcu-central" u is the offline you....but if it is...u and i would stay bumpin' heads on a whole LOT of things....based on what all you say on here....
so ladies of hbcu central, i want to know would you ever date a dude like me?NO what do you like about demmeri? The fact that you say what is on your mind no matter how asinine it is. what do you hate about demmeri? Do we really have the time?Not that I hate, let's say a strong dislike for your ideals...and your love for things that aren't what you are what would you change? Your personality...it rubs me the wrong way...you have this soapbox and I want to kick it from under you all of this is based upon my internet personality...what can i improve upon? what do i need to just let go? You need to start from scratch... I also hate the things you say about females as if you yourself are greater...that's probably why you have no love life...next it's not Columbia as to why you don't have a female...no SC heyell any female is going to put up with you. You have the potential to be an ok person, but it's just something I can't quite put into words. Know I meant this all in the most loving way Only change who you are b/c you see the need to do so, not for anyone else.
so ladies of hbcu central, i want to know would you ever date a dude like me?NO what do you like about demmeri? The fact that you say what is on your mind no matter how asinine it is. what do you hate about demmeri? Do we really have the time?Not that I hate, let's say a strong dislike for your ideals...and your love for things that aren't what you are what would you change? Your personality...it rubs me the wrong way...you have this soapbox and I want to kick it from under you all of this is based upon my internet personality...what can i improve upon? what do i need to just let go? You need to start from scratch... I also hate the things you say about females as if you yourself are greater...that's probably why you have no love life...next it's not Columbia as to why you don't have a female...no SC heyell any female is going to put up with you. You have the potential to be an ok person, but it's just something I can't quite put into words. Know I meant this all in the most loving way Only change who you are b/c you see the need to do so, not for anyone else.
so ladies of hbcu central, i want to know would you ever date a dude like me?NO what do you like about demmeri? The fact that you say what is on your mind no matter how asinine it is. what do you hate about demmeri? Do we really have the time?Not that I hate, let's say a strong dislike for your ideals...and your love for things that aren't what you are what would you change? Your personality...it rubs me the wrong way...you have this soapbox and I want to kick it from under you all of this is based upon my internet personality...what can i improve upon? what do i need to just let go? You need to start from scratch... I also hate the things you say about females as if you yourself are greater...that's probably why you have no love life...next it's not Columbia as to why you don't have a female...no SC heyell any female is going to put up with you. You have the potential to be an ok person, but it's just something I can't quite put into words. Know I meant this all in the most loving way Only change who you are b/c you see the need to do so, not for anyone else.
:lol: :lol: .....im glad u meant all of that in the most loving way :lol:
ok demmeri. i've noticed three critical issues that you should really work on......
:arrow: it seems you have little to no respect for women. i mean look at the titile of this thread for goodness sake.
:arrow: it seems you have little to no respect for black women. i couldn't even count the many times you have critized (directly or indirectly) us. maybe it's become so natural for you that you dont even notice it......
:arrow: you don't seem to understand us at all....you have all these crazy perceptions of why we do or say the things we do when in reality you don't know shyt! how many women have you been with?
If you can work on these things, maybe women can see pass you're weird ways and actually begin to show interest in you. :wink:
but nah...seems like you would just be a friend type....because of some of the things you say and how you come off on the boards.....you say some off the wall stuff....SERIOUSLY off tha wall....i mean, i don't know how closely that resembles how u r offline....but if it is...i'd be a lil' concerned, lol....'cause you don't just say off tha wall stuff ('cause i do know people like that & that isn't necessarily a problem), but u say some seriously WEIRD off tha wall stuff....
and aside from my despise for your "prez" as a leader....you have a very peculiar and disturbing obsession with that man, lol....you've said some off tha wall stuff about him as well....
plus...i will never forget what u said about trying on women's payless shoes....that was just a little too much for me......maybe some girls wouldn't mind that, but hey.....it was a lil' funny...but definitely not attractive, lol....but that's just me...
& finally...as tiph sort of referred to in another thread....u come off as a little shallow and narrowminded, when it comes to females....as far as what u're looking for physically....u r TOO restrictive and picky....and i believe you WILL end up with someone who is the complete opposite of what u're seeking....whether you want it to happen that way or not....
and even how i've seen u pass judgment on certain females up here....
like i said....not sure how much of the "hbcu-central" u is the offline you....but if it is...u and i would stay bumpin' heads on a whole LOT of things....based on what all you say on here....
