Meeting People in Church

PRAISE THE LORD!!! Everyone has pretty much said what I was thinking except I wonted to add the fact that we can't just think about the person we're meeting, we have to focus on the person they're meeting. (MEANING OURSELVES) A lot of times people say the reason why something doesn't work out was because of the other person. Well, if the same problem is happening in each relationship, than eventually somebody is going to have to look in the mirror and be honest with themselves. All we can do is get ourselves together. If a lot of people would be honest, they aren't even ready to date, because they are still trying to get themselves together. It's just that SOCIETY makes it seem like a bad thing when someone is single and not looking. My question is how can you say what you want if you don't even know what you have to offer? Know yourself, love yourself, spend time with yourself and then you wont try to make that other person your everything. Let God be your EVERYTHING, because when you make someone else your everything, they can leave you with nothing. Instead of looking for the prize, you'll have to realized that you are the prize.

Amen Sister!!

Superfly, I noticed your whole message was pertaining to what other people are doing in the church. That is none of your concern! You have to have a relationship with Jesus for yourself! You are the one who will stand before Jesus on judgment day and he is not going to listen to your long tirade of what the other people were doing. The best thing that you said at the end of your message is that you are there to learn. That is what you need to do! Just sit there and continue to learn. It is obvious that you need to sit at Jesus's feet and learn from him. You don't have to ever worry about a Christian woman wanting you in the state that you are in! A Holy Ghost filled woman of God will discern your ways, and will not waste time listening to that foolishness you are talking about! So you won't ever have to worry about finding a woman at the Church because she's NOT going to want YOU! Women of God are looking for men who love Jesus and aren't afraid to tell the whole world about it! There isn't anything desireable about an unsaved man. Trust that unsaved men are not high on the list! Woman are looking for men who will honor them like Jesus honored the church! All of those sterotypes that you mentioned are really superficial and silly! It looks like you are too busy observing and philosophizing about other people and you aren't listening to anything the preacher is saying nor reading the Bible.