...Hi, everyone, my name is Jameya Porter (group: "HIII, Jameya")....I am here...because I have a problem.
I am addicted to black East Coast men like no others.
Not the Southern ones - not North Carolina "East Coast"...i mean EAST COAST....UP NORTH & the like...as in New York, New Jersey, Washington, D.C., Philly headz, and the like....
IT'S ALL A&T'S FAULT :evil:!!! all of these people here I meet from that region - can you BLAME ME?!?!
but no...let me stop...i should not re-shift the blame onto another shoulders...this is my problem...one of which I have to deal with myself...
And now that I have acknowledged the problem, perhaps I can proceed trying to figure out how to solve it.
question is...do i really want 2?!?!?!? :twisted: any others out there who would like to admit to an addiction to certain types of people? please feel free...here is your opportunity....to be true to yourself....
the first step...is admitting you have a problem....
I guess the brownskinned bruthas from LA can't get no luv
:x
lol no cali bruthas for me, yall are kinda vain yo...only east coast...no caribbean (OK ILL DO JAMAICA but no TRINIS or haitians)AND DEFINENTLY NO AFRICAN!.....im much to stubborn for africans
and about the brownskinned-ness....i think its the lighting, yall dont stick out or something...i can spot a very dark chocolate guy(not so dark they look like night but deeep brown) or light guy from miles away....and zone in on him....maybe i just like the contrast of colors or something when they hug me....i dont know...IM TRYING TO WORK ON THAT ADDICTION DAGNABIT!... a year from now ill be changed, PROMISE!
reason my first (and seems to be last) ex was dark as all hell
^I've "talked" to African men, specifically Nigerian. Not to stereotype but the ones I have dated were too aggressive. I like the thrill of a chase and they were just too "all-up-on-my-****".
But I love dem Jamaican boys!
^I've "talked" to African men, specifically Nigerian. Not to stereotype but the ones I have dated were too aggressive. I like the thrill of a chase and they were just too "all-up-on-my-****".
But I love dem Jamaican boys!
*GURRRLLL YES, i mean at HOWARD dem nigerian boys **** me with how they are all up on a sistah...i mean i say i want to be treated like a queen all the time, and i feel bad ....but gooooodddammmnnn, i do not need 24-7 calls, and praises and compliments all hours of the day.....dont get me started on the guys from ghana, lawd have mercy..
but yeah
*small pause for the jamaican boys*
they are stubborn and ornery asall hell, but i still lub em!
OK. Hello my name is T and I'm addicted to....big fellas. Ones that look like linebackers in football. And I like men that look like Ruben but not that **** big. That's why my favorite dog is a Saint Bernard.
^I've "talked" to African men, specifically Nigerian. Not to stereotype but the ones I have dated were too aggressive. I like the thrill of a chase and they were just too "all-up-on-my-****".
But I love dem Jamaican boys!
*GURRRLLL YES, i mean at HOWARD dem nigerian boys **** me with how they are all up on a sistah...i mean i say i want to be treated like a queen all the time, and i feel bad ....but gooooodddammmnnn, i do not need 24-7 calls, and praises and compliments all hours of the day.....dont get me started on the guys from ghana, lawd have mercy..
but yeah
*small pause for the jamaican boys*
they are stubborn and ornery asall hell, but i still lub em!
YES...i DEFINITELY feel ya'll on the African men....
they have a VERY different idea of what a man-woman relationship is supposed to be...& it SHOWS
they are very AGGRESSIVE...ANNND POSSESSIVE...
and i, too, don't mean 2 stereotype, but dammit...when every African dude i've met were like that....every African dude all of my homegurlz have met have been like that....every African dude ANY female (including my mother) has met has been like that....
ya sometimes just can't help it :?
i guess they MEAN WELL....it just comes off...REALLY the wrong way...
especially to us Black American women....
& also, they're very determined & persistent!! & CONFIDENT in their pursuits!! when they want you, they WANT you...NADA LESS
ya'll eva seen that episode of Martin when ol' dude was some type of African prince...& wanted Gina as one of his "cuncubine (*sp)"s??? YUP - that is eXACTly how they r....
and oh yeah...another addiction seems to be guys who can sing...well. He doesn't even have to be all that cute, but if he can blow, it's a wrap. A negro like that is liable to make me lose my halo
::stands up::
Hi my name is Ashley...and uhhh....im addicted to light skin/caramel brothas with that good curlie hair and big succulent lips and nice eyes...whooo lawd....
Im also addicted to guys who are creative...for example...guys who write poetry/spoken word...who can draw/paint....
as well as singers....
