Alright you all, I have been chillin with this girl on that friends with benefits level for 4 years now :twisted: . We are mad kewl with eachother and we tell eachother every damn thing. Well this summer is the first time we've been all up in eachothers faces. Well I go over to her crib, because she calls and says she has something for me (well you know what I had on the brain... :twisted: ). I get over their and this girl had cooked a feast for a nicca and EVEN BAKED A HOMEMADE CAKE .
So this was a big **** turn on, I could of wax that **** right there on the table.. :twisted:
My thing is was this a invitation for somthing more, or was this a friend just cooking for another friend?
The only way to really tell is ta go head n ask the girl, but four years is kinda long for her (well, neither one of ya'll) to not be look'n at somethin more than just FWB...but I kno I wanted go out of my way (be'n martha steward w/ the homemade ish) like that if I wasn't feel'n that person on a deeper level...
ay....you ain't save me a plate? see dat's what I'm talkin bout right there :x
i'll cook for you, Carrie :wink:
to the topic... i think you should see where it goes... y'all been friends w/ benefits, and that does escalate, especially after 4 years... see what happens...
Damn man, she cooked for you??? Hmmm... Maybe you should see what else she has planned for you ??? Maybe she's just been waitin for you to take the next step???
4 yrs as friends with benifits + all in each others faces + home cooking = time to beat the breaks off that one
Quickest way 2 the heart is the stomach
The question is... Has she ever cooked for you before (in them 4 years?) if no.. then she's DEFINITELY tryna move the relationship to another level... if yes.. then it depends on the distance in time....
You might need to evaluate the status of your relationship... If you aren't tryna go further, then you probably need to cut it off, cuz y'all have invested to much time and feelings into it...
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So this was a big **** turn on, I could of wax that **** right there on the table.. :twisted:
My thing is was this a invitation for somthing more, or was this a friend just cooking for another friend?
