Hey ladies i have a question?
Am i wrong?
I have been talking 2 this female 4 like a month and a half but we were friends for a min before we took it 2 that next level. Now when i met her she had a man and they had been 2gether 4 quite a long time. But he goes 2 school in La and She goes 2 Tougaloo aka the Loo thas a hbcu in Mississippi. But she ended up breaking it off with him or so she say just 2 be with me. Now she calls everyday and i never have 2 worry about where she is. But 2 many **** call her phone it's like a juke box ringing all types of night. Some times she says it's her cousin or someone else. So one day i told her that i was threw and she broke down into real hard tears, that hard crying where u be shaking and lips be shaking...That kinda crying... But i still dont trust her. Last night i told her that i met a girl that goes 2 school with her and got her # because i keep it real..She started crying again than she hung up in my face. Now i told her before if sh eever hang up again that was it./ So she called back later crying because i told her it was threw. Talking about dont leave her and other ish. My thing is should i trust her i have seen girls cry like that and be faking it..It's more 2 this story but i have 2 run but tell me what u think?
What we think doesn't even matter in this situation.. You don't trust her, that's enough of a reason to break it off. Trust is a VERY necessary component of a relationship and without it, ya'll can't grow, simple as that. Good luck though!
I completely agree. Trust is a major factor in both long distance and relationships where you see the person everyday. It's hard to know if she's lying or not because girls have gotten just as good at this whole lying thing as some males are. But ultimately, I think you need to do what you feel...and if you feel you want to give her another chance then go ahead.
I cosign to what they said
but too...you gotta think...maybe she has a lot of male friends...I mean I get phone calls from my male best friend at odd times of the night because he REALLY needs to talk to me about something....but if I'm chillin chillin with my man then I'll tell him I'll call him back...and plus some of my other male friends just call me crazy cuz.....they crazy what's wrong with that?
