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How can u put up with a long-distance relationship? Has anyone ever been or is anyone in a long-distance relationship? Holla back at cha gurl!
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 10-25-2004 10:52PM [Reply]

I am currently working on a long distance relationship type thing. Lol. It is very difficult not seeing him for long periods of time. We talk alot on the phone, although it is very difficult for the both of us. He has football and school and I have school and various other things. It takes a lot of trust, communication, dedication. I think it takes a high level of maturity and self control to be in a long distance relationship. There are a lot of options in college and as soon as they find out you are in a relationship, some of them will try even harder to get you out of that relationsip. All I can say is to make sure you are ready for the commitment and hard work that a long distance relationship needs. Hope this helps and good luck.
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King_J replied on 10-25-2004 11:06PM [Reply]
It is all good for me. Long Distance relationships can be good. It is good for me because it allows me and my girl to have space, and space is good. Now I see her on average 1 or 2 times a month while we are in school, so that is all good
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MustBNice334 from Atlanta, GA by way of Montgomery..aka..G, AL replied on 10-26-2004 04:20AM [Reply]

I'm in a long distant relationship......my girl is back home. It has it's ups and downs...I guess the key is that you have to WANT it to last. If you don't then you'll let things get between you. I ain't even gonna lie, it's hard though....me and my girl are started to get the bad part of it.....I guess that's what happens when you can't see someone you want to be with. But that just comes with the territory......as long as you both contribute to makin it work
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AggieWarrior from Charlotte, NC replied on 10-26-2004 10:14AM [Reply]

isn't this a thread already? i went through it over the summer... being 10 hrs away from your girl **** ****... but if you have the time and patience to put up w/ it, go for it... beware of all the stress and keep trust open :arrow:
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KnowledgableTruth from Cincinnati, OH replied on 10-26-2004 10:48AM [Reply]

I tried it but mine didn't work...your relationship has to be strong before you leave and all that absence makes the heart grow fonder sh t....thats true...until you meet somebody that you think is better...mine didn't work and it was simply because I found someone who better complimented me as a person...but it does work for some people...but everyone I know that it works for...stays up in there room the majority of the time booed up on the phone (remember I said everyone I KNOW)...and if you're not one to do that...then I really don't think you should do it...In the back of your mind...you will always wonder what your partner is doing...and its hard...thats something that your relationship has to be ready for...not him or her specifically...but the relationship itself
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Its_like_candie replied on 10-26-2004 01:04PM [Reply]
Its hard as hell. I've tried it before. I guess it really does all depend on what kind of person u are and how long u've been in the relationship. Im the type that needs affection...and if yer not givin it out...chances are...imma go astray. It just all depends tho.
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PhatAggie85 from Fort Washington, MD replied on 10-26-2004 02:20PM [Reply]

it all depends on tha status of ur relationship...i tried to be in a long distance relationship my freshman year...and it didnt work out
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fyne_dyme2005 from Casa Grande, AZ replied on 10-28-2004 12:54AM [Reply]

well this is how it is for me. i m currently in long distance relationship. me and my boyfriend were together for almost a year and we both lived in seattle. he graduated from highschool. i moved to phoenix wit my parents. he moved to texas wit his and shortly after moved to Mississippi for college. i havent seen him since well about 3 months and wont for another month and a half. it is hard because we are on opposite ends of the country but the relationship was too deep and it woulda been a waste of a relationship to give it up for this obstacle. it takes alot of trust and communication. we both have our sad i miss you moments and when that happens we always call no matter what the time. it helps. i think you have to believe in each other and have much faith in the relationship. i always say whats on my mind and he does also. long distance relationships require emotional security from each other, trust, comunication, support, and love. thats my opinion
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replied on 10-28-2004 11:22AM [Reply]
I was in a long distance relationship once, then we started cheating on each other. I don't think I could ever do a long distance relationship, ever
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