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HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH DAD? Posted on 10-31-2004
BABYJAZZ87

THERE IS NOTHING LIKE A FATHER AND DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP. MOST OF THE MALES HAVE BETTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR DAD, THAN FEMALES, OR IS IT THE OTHER WAY AROUND? :? N*E* WAYZ, I REALLY DON'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAD, BUT I WANT ONE. I DO TRY TO TALK TO HIM BUT HE REALLY DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY TO ME. HOW CAN I TRY TO HAVE THAT RELATIONSHIP THAT I WANT WITH MY FATHER? HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR DAD?
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Afro-American replied on 10-31-2004 11:23PM [Reply]
the first and ONLY recognizable time(first time i didnt recognize him when he pushed me offa me in a grocery store) i saw my dad was when he went for my older sisters' gradaution, last i heard he was in prison yet again for trying to break in someone's house...**** gonna write me A YEAR AGO talking bout "can you ever forgive me," and "im embarrassed about my addiction"...if he was so embarrassed he wouldve quit **** almost 20 years ago....crack kills yalL crack kills, and my dad was training to be a doctor after he got out the navy before i was born before he discovered the joys of ****, CRACK KILLS :roll:
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Mr. Howard from New Orleans, LA replied on 11-01-2004 01:22AM [Reply]

yea pops got on **** when i was like 3, he left and i seen him like maybe 10 times in 19 years. last i heard (earlier this school year) he was callin my moms while in jail (like he usually does) asking her to get in touch with his moms (f*ck her too) to get him out of jail. he said he had got into two fights since he been in there. when she told me that i was laughin but now im more like its really sad what **** can do to you and how it can make u lose your family. i try to pray for him that all i can to. but i dont want a relationship with him nor his moms. both of em need help. that entire side of the family need help, i wish i couldof taken my moms last name instead of his. i cant wait (actually i can) to have children so i could do all the stuff i wanted him to do with me. but i forgive (although you would need an apology to forgive)
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Focused247 from San Dimas, CA replied on 11-01-2004 12:43PM [Reply]
I used to be "Daddy's Girl" until about 2-3 years ago when he decided to up and leave his family. I still communicated with him at times on and off, but uhhh I cut him lose a few months ago when I realized talkin to him only made me feel worse about him not bein around. So yea... no father around my way.
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Its_like_candie replied on 11-01-2004 01:57PM [Reply]
Me and my dad are really close. I love him to death and he understands me a lot better than my mom does. What can i say...im daddys lil gurl. And because im daddys lil gurl and daddy treats me like a queen...i dont expect to be treated anythang less than a queen when im talkin to ****! I think thats why i dont have a man now!!! LOL!
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 11-01-2004 02:44PM [Reply]

He's like a distant relative to me...our relationship is basically non existent. Not to mention he owes me $15,000 in back child support, but we ain't gon get into that.
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 11-01-2004 03:15PM [Reply]

My dad and I really didn't use to get a long. Everyday was a constant battle. He was in the military and was gone a lot, so my mother basically raised my brother and I for a while until he retired. Then he came home trying to regulate and all, and that wasn't going to fly right with me. He would come home and try and bark orders at me like I was a damn soldier. I would be lile hold up partna. And we would constantly argue over the tiniest things. Now that I am in college, I don't know whether it is because I am away or we have both matured in a way, he and I are actually pretty close. I think I like it better that way since now I don't have to worry about slamming doors and yelling and messing up my day.
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In Rod We Trust replied on 11-01-2004 03:24PM [Reply]
Ms. Megan wrote:
He's like a distant relative to me...our relationship is basically non existent. Not to mention he owes me $15,000 in back child support, but we ain't gon get into that.
15,000 is all....... u got it good sweetie my father owes approximately 1.8 MILLION dollars for me and my sister combined...................
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RosieKisses from QUEENS, NY replied on 11-01-2004 03:35PM [Reply]

i looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove my daddy sooo damn much it's not even funny....We're too much alike...he's like my homie, that's my dawg!!! he understands me and he's easy to talk to, get along with and he's just REAL...He never tried to be a "friend" to us. He always played the father roll but he was cool with it...We have a wonderful relationship now and Im such a daddy's girl it makes folks sick ...Anyway i miss dude, i should go call his **** and see what he's doing :arrow:
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1stLadyHU from Grand Rapids, MI replied on 11-01-2004 04:36PM [Reply]

MY DAD AND I ARE COOL. WE TEND NOT TO SEE EYE TO EYE ON ALOT OF THINGS BUT I LOVE HIM AND NO MATTER HOW MAD I GET I COULD NEVER JUST GO WITHOUT TALKING TO HIM. WHEN I WAS YOUNGER WE HAD THE BEST RELATIONSHIP. BUT THEN HE BECAME REALLY REALLY SICK SO HE IS ALWAYS CRANKY NOW. I TRY TO IGNORE HIS CRANKINESS BECAUSE I KNOW THAT HE IS GOING THROUGH A TOUGH SITUATION. BUT NOW THAT I AM FAR AWAY I KNOW THAT HE MISSES ME ALOT... HE JUST HAS A STRANGE WAY OF SHOWING IT. :wink:
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