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OKAY LADIES, I NEED SOME ADVICE...CHECK THIS.... Posted on 11-09-2004
nextinline

ok me and my "boyfriend" are going through some issues right now.First, this is what i guess u could call our "third round", because we have broken up twice before. Both times it was some straight up nonsense. Anyway, im thinking third times a charm..................SIKE. Everything is completley different this time around. We hardly talk, and we barley spend time together, and for the past few weeks, when i see him, its just because i ran into him while i was out. And the other week, when i ran into him, he introduced me as his girlfriend which suprised me (even though i am), because he definitley doesnt act like it. Supposedly hes "busy" all of the time, and he said that we're gonna "be together for real" as soon as everything calms down, but whenever i try to get at him he 1- doesnt respond (calls, texts), or he says he cant make it. Im saying, why not just let it go if hes not really into me? I have other people checking for me, and im sitting here thinking about his ****. I need a slap in the face or something, so someone please...help me out.l
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In Rod We Trust replied on 11-09-2004 08:14AM [Reply]
wheres ASHLEY? this is her area of expertise..................... u DO NOT WANT TO KNOW what I think.................... :arrow:
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replied on 11-09-2004 11:28AM [Reply]
nextinline wrote:
"boyfriend" we have broken up twice before We hardly talk we barely spend time together when i see him, its just because i ran into him he's "busy" all of the time whenever i try to get at him he 1- doesnt respond (calls, texts) or he says he cant make it
Look at all of this, why exactly do you need our opinions on this matter? Unless he's in the process of joining a fraternity or going through some SERIOUS issues at home there is no reason for you two to have little to no communication. I mean really, what are you holding on for?
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why not just let it go if hes not really into me?
If you see the relationship is not working why don't YOU let it go? To the sistahs: Look at this situation. She's not the only one that goes through this crap on the regular with these unstable **** n*ggas. WHY do we continue to let folks treat us like dirt and then keep going back for more? We keep holding on to wishes that things will get beter in the future. Well guess what, now IS that future we've been waiting on and NOT A DAMN THING HAS CHANGED. We deserve better than this, don't you agree? Ole boy needs to sh*t or GET OFF THE POT, simple as that!!! (if you need a translation let me know) :wink:
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 11-09-2004 12:49PM [Reply]

Dr. Ash wrote:
nextinline wrote:
"boyfriend" we have broken up twice before We hardly talk we barely spend time together when i see him, its just because i ran into him he's "busy" all of the time whenever i try to get at him he 1- doesnt respond (calls, texts) or he says he cant make it
Look at all of this, why exactly do you need our opinions on this matter? Unless he's in the process of joining a fraternity or going through some SERIOUS issues at home there is no reason for you two to have little to no communication. I mean really, what are you holding on for?
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why not just let it go if hes not really into me?
If you see the relationship is not working why don't YOU let it go? To the sistahs: Look at this situation. She's not the only one that goes through this crap on the regular with these unstable **** n*ggas. WHY do we continue to let folks treat us like dirt and then keep going back for more? We keep holding on to wishes that things will get beter in the future. Well guess what, now IS that future we've been waiting on and NOT A DAMN THING HAS CHANGED. We deserve better than this, don't you agree? Ole boy needs to sh*t or GET OFF THE POT, simple as that!!! (if you need a translation let me know) :wink:
Preach!
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King_J replied on 11-09-2004 03:45PM [Reply]
jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
u DO NOT WANT TO KNOW what I think.................... :arrow:
Umm, yeah she does. That is why she posted on here to get EVERYONE'S advise :arrow:
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nextinline replied on 11-09-2004 03:49PM [Reply]
i want to know wat everyone thinks. I dont really care if u say im **** or i just need a tall glass of kool-aid, whatever, just say it.
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In Rod We Trust replied on 11-09-2004 04:18PM [Reply]
fine..................... you need to move on and get the hell over it..................... it is painfully clear that he doesn't want you................... and apparently he has him a piece SOMEWHERE...................... he's not getting back to u and has way too many excuses................ LOSER.................... get rid of him and find u someone who WANTS to be with you.....................
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replied on 11-09-2004 05:16PM [Reply]
Maybe he is really busy....
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In Rod We Trust replied on 11-09-2004 05:21PM [Reply]
Polaris304 wrote:
Maybe he is really busy....
shut up Polaris..................... *smh*
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AggieSweetie07 replied on 11-09-2004 07:32PM [Reply]
atlprincess wrote:
Dr. Ash wrote:
nextinline wrote:
"boyfriend" we have broken up twice before We hardly talk we barely spend time together when i see him, its just because i ran into him he's "busy" all of the time whenever i try to get at him he 1- doesnt respond (calls, texts) or he says he cant make it
Look at all of this, why exactly do you need our opinions on this matter? Unless he's in the process of joining a fraternity or going through some SERIOUS issues at home there is no reason for you two to have little to no communication. I mean really, what are you holding on for?
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why not just let it go if hes not really into me?
If you see the relationship is not working why don't YOU let it go? To the sistahs: Look at this situation. She's not the only one that goes through this crap on the regular with these unstable **** n*ggas. WHY do we continue to let folks treat us like dirt and then keep going back for more? We keep holding on to wishes that things will get beter in the future. Well guess what, now IS that future we've been waiting on and NOT A DAMN THING HAS CHANGED. We deserve better than this, don't you agree? Ole boy needs to sh*t or GET OFF THE POT, simple as that!!! (if you need a translation let me know) :wink:
Preach!
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