Well...here's the situation. One day I called my gurl and she was goin somewhere wit her boyfriend and her boyfriend's cousin. Well her man's cousin snatched up the phone and we started talkin. I gave him my number and he called me that nite. That was about 2 weeks ago, and we've been talkin every night ever since. He's a sweetie, and he's juss a real cool guy. BUT here's where everything starts killin me. I never seen him. And he's never seen me. We're supposed to be meeting each other soon, and Im scared...and nervous. What if he doesnt like me? what if i dont like him? DO u think its possible for someones (whom u never met) personality to make that person cute? I NEED SOME HELP YALL??!! TELL ME WHAT YA THINK?
In reality, physical attraction is the major reason why you fall for someone. I know for me, if the physical ain't there then I lose attention really quick. If you are one of those type of people and he ain't cute, I don't think it's gonna work out. If you ain't physically attracted to him tell you you just wanna be friends or you wanna take it slow. Maybe he'll grow on you.
Man I don't know....he might be cool as hell but when you see him he might have Billy Joe teeth, a box cut, and a lazy eye......and that DEFINATELY turns me off...but go for it...he may be a Morris Chesnut look alike...lol :lol:
I agree 100%. It'd be great if ya'll clicked physically of the bat, but that's not how it works all the time. You already know he has a good personality, so I hope you'd give him a little time to grow on you if he wasn't a Morris Chesnut looking ****.
I think you should give it a shot. You have little to lose, and a lot to gain.
Best case scenario is you find someone that truly makes you happy.
Worst case scenario is you meet up, decide you aren't feelin each other, and go your separate ways.
If you decide the two of you don't match up, it's not the end of the world. But there's only one way to find out.
I'm going to be real honest. My boyfriend and I didn't see each other for 6 months. I mean we talked on the phone and all and I really started to like him. The first time I saw him was over Thanksgiving break and I was nervous because I didn't know what he was going to think and I was like what if I don't like him and blah blah blah. He turned out to be fine as hell, but even if he wasn't we would have still been cool because of the simple fact that he had already grown on me. Needless to say, I think you should go and don';t be nervous...because you never know...he could be the one.