If someone dies I am automatically saddened, I dont even have to know them. If I kinda knew them I cry a little, and I am so blessed to say that nobody close to me has passed yet so i dont know what i would do.
me too. i was just talkin with my best friend last week and we got on the topic of death and she said somethin like 'im sorry but i cant do funerals' so i said 'well if i died tomorrow would you come to my funeral?' she got all upset cuz she aint wanna hear me talkin about dying and all but i mean hey, its a part of life.
and as for your question, i also try to let people im close with know how i feel about them as much as i can. it'll be like 2 in the am and ill call my granny just to tell her i love her. im not tryna have no people thinkin "what if" or "how did she feel" when i go. the way things are going in the world now, its ludacris (sp? :lol: ) to assume that you are promised tomorrow.
What would I do fo love? Nothing
Love happens or it doesn't. You cannt make someone love you. You cannot buy love. You cannot change so that a person will love you. You cannot take care of someone and expect love in return, or if someone is willing to take care of you does not equate to love.
You cannot do anything for love. If you had to do something for love, was it really love in the first place? Most folks state love is unconditional. Love is 100% conditional; look at relationships and what you were willing to do for that love--there were conditions/expectations, although unspoken.
Love begins with the Heavenly Father and self. Until one begins to love self, there is no love, just unhealthy conditional dependency in various forms.
