If you had a partner and you asked the question of how many people have you slept with and they gave you an astronomical number, would it bother you, even if slightly?
Or would you put it down to 'thats the past, i'm the future!' :?:
..personally...if a guy i was talking to gave me a big **** number..i wouldn't sleep with him or date him...guys like that tend to be "users"...if i was already dating him..i think i would flip out...on the real...depending on how long we had been dating
Now its yallz turn..what yall think :?:
if he slept with a whole lot of females, he's a hoe.......don't care what nobody says.....that being said, i don't think i'd date him either.... i definately wouldn't lay with him.........
if he slept with a whole lot of females, he's a hoe.......don't care what nobody says.....that being said, i don't think i'd date him either.... i definately wouldn't lay with him.........
thats what im saying.. a nasty **** dude/female will always be that nasty **** dude/female in my book..once a hoe..always a hoe :!:
that's a pretty complicated issue...
i know it would make me fell hella uncomfortable...and even a bit insecure...but at the same time, you would think that everyone does need a little faith in them...and what if they sincerely have changed?
as long as you know they don't have any "leftovers" from their past (i.e. STDs or random un-claimed babies spread throughout the world)....and they didn't just finish like runnin' a train with their boys on some chick yesterday, lol....all you can really do is have faith and trust in them that that really was the past....
i mean, if their "hoe" days took place when they were like 17 or 18...and they're now 23 or 24...u gotta think, well damn...everybody needs love too, ya know? so if everybody holds against them their deeply-rooted past...they'll be lonely for the rest of their days...no matter how good their intentions and genuine their actions...
so i don't know....truthfully...i admit i would be a little bias towards him and the idea of "us"...if we just met and he tells me this humongous number of past partners.....
but if we've been goin' together for a minute....and then all of sudden the subject comes up....unless i had already been having doubt and skepticism about his fidelity towards me and abilities to overcome temptation with other females.....then i would think it would only be fair...not to hold that information against him at that point...
but i don't know.....that's just one of those things you can't really speak for sure on...until you are actually in the situation......
yup...i wouldn't want to be with a chick that's been with more than 2 dudes..i've been with 2 girls but like that was back when i was a ****...now i've changed and i'm waiting for that speacial someone...
I think it would bother me, but at the same time if they changed I wouldn't want to judge them on their passed mistakes, It would take me a while to look at that person the same though.
