yesterday during my workstudy, my friend Johnny was telling me about this song on Destiny Child's newest album called "I'll Cater to You"...
& he was trying to explain to me what the song was about....pretty much about a woman doing all that it takes to keep her man happy, and he was quoting actual lines from the song ("I'll tie your do-rag" "I'll brush your teeth" or some ish like that)...
he wuz like, YES - i want a woman like THAT!
i was like, "maan, bump THAT!"
aiight...so the whole time, this dude i call "Tuna Boy" (long story, inside joke) was listenin' in & i guess was intrigued by my saying "bump that!" & wanted 2 know y i felt that way...& this is pretty much what i said & how i feel about that...
(*quoting this from my Xanga instead of typing it all out again*)
AggieSysta/PoetiqReign'z Xanga wrote:
i wanted 2 re-phrase tho..didn't want him or anyone else to think i wouldn't try to make my man happy, either in a non-marital relationship or a marital one...
my thing is...i will try to make him happy within reason...as i hope he would do the same for me...you know, a 50/50-type situation...
plus...and this was the key point because this is what really started thingz up 'tween me & "Tuna Boy"...
i said i'm not into the wife being submissive to her husband...
"Tuna Boy," on the other hand...is...
so yeah...we had a SLIGHT conflict with that...but it was all good....he wants his woman home with the kids, taking care of the family, and doing a lot of what he says...
i would consider being at home with the kids, but i'll be damned if i'm doing everything you say just because you said it....i'm product of the CLAIRE HUXTABLE image, DAMMIT!!so yeah...that'z what i meant by BUMP THAT!
u ain't runnin' this house...we runnin' it together....
so how do ya'll feel about all of that?? fellaz - do u want your wife to be 'submissive'? ladiez - r u willing to take on the 'submissive' role? r u mixed between both sidez...what'z up?
do whatever it takes...
i want a woman that will cater to me during monday night football...
you may be my wifey and at, but at 9 PM monday,s TO is my boo... 8) :arrow:
gurrrlll you asking if black women would be submissive??...the same group of people who will curse out their man in public if he didnt get the right set of tampons for them from target???....wooooo i wish a black woman would.... :lol: :lol: :lol: ...im sorry *crying* that was some funny ish
gurrrlll you asking if black women would be submissive??...the same group of people who will curse out their man in public if he didnt get the right set of tampons for them from target???....wooooo i wish a black woman would.... :lol: :lol: :lol: ...im sorry *crying* that was some funny ish
lol nah - some femalez actually might not mind that...
not I...nor anyone i know
but i'm sure they're out there somewhere
plus...i'd really like 2 see how tha fellaz feel about this....i would think a brotha wouldn't really want a female who will be completely submissive to him.....but i know there r those out there who actually would want that, alike "Tuna Boy"...
I don't know about being submissive, but I would definitely go to any length to satisfy my man. Well any lengths that are within reason. But on the same note, if I am willing to do that for him, then he must be willing to do the same for me.
I don't know about being submissive, but I would definitely go to any length to satisfy my man. Well any lengths that are within reason. But on the same note, if I am willing to do that for him, then he must be willing to do the same for me.
I dont want a submissive woman. She's gotta put me in check sometimes, too. That way, I know she REALLY loves me.
lol well hopefully whoeva i end up has that same mentality
'cuz all that knowz me knowz that there is NOTHING in me that reflects a "submissive person," let alone a submissive wife...
If I have a man who is taking care of me, his house and home and treats me like I am his queen I would have no problem running his bath water, giving him massages, brushing his hair, etc. My pleasure is pleasuring a man so I have no problem making him feel like a king.
Being submisssive is different. That means he has absolute contol over your life and you do anything he tells you. A relationship is 50/50 (if you old school like me it's 60/40) and if he caters to your needs return the favor but I won't be run over.
If I have a man who is taking care of me, his house and home and treats me like I am his queen I would have no problem running his bath water, giving him massages, brushing his hair, etc. My pleasure is pleasuring a man so I have no problem making him feel like a king.
Being submisssive is different. That means he has absolute contol over your life and you do anything he tells you. A relationship is 50/50 (if you old school like me it's 60/40) and if he caters to your needs return the favor but I won't be run over.
HOLLA BACK..................
megan u kno u my homie right?
