Ok, so i call the dude i wrote the poem about today when i got off of work, just to see what was up. He ain't answer his first cell, so i called the otha one. HIS GIRLFRIEND answered the phone! I tried to play it off and asked for "Sherice." She was like, "do you mean Sherice, or do you want Sean?"
BUST-ED!!!
i'm like, "nah i know Sean, but i'm tryna call my girl Sherice"
she wz like, "Well your name showed up in his phone and you just tried to call both of his phones, so what does that tell me?"
DAMN, DAMN, DAMN! (y his dumb **** put my name in his phone??)
I f*cked up by lying about it, if i woulda just asked for him it woulda blew over.
so she like, "what the f*ck, just don't call him anymore, a'ight? Lose this number.[click]"
that's what my **** get, i shoulda jst left well enough alone
oh, & i wuzn't saying U r one of tha onez who r bold as ISH as 2 call him when u KNOW his girl, fam, etc. is around....but i just mean there R those out there who r....
Not that I condone breaking up relationships, but if you call a dude and his girl answer the phone, you gotta play it off. Just ask for him, then be like well do you know if he is with...... then name one of his friends. There is other stuff you could say too, but it would have been best to just leave it alone from the beginning.
I know I look real suspect comin up w/ lies like that, but sometimes you gotta "adapt."
Not that I condone breaking up relationships, but if you call a dude and his girl answer the phone, you gotta play it off. Just ask for him, then be like well do you know if he is with...... then name one of his friends. There is other stuff you could say too, but it would have been best to just leave it alone from the beginning.
I know I look real suspect comin up w/ lies like that, but sometimes you gotta "adapt."
lol...
it's easy 2 give her advice on how 2 approach that situation now
but if she'z anything like me & wuz that unexpectant that anyone besides him would actually answer the phone....then she wuz probably @ a lost for wordz & made an attempt to think on her feet a.s.a.p..
& that'z what she got
I shouldn't even reply to this because I've been on the other side of the river when it comes to this cheating game...and I made sure the ****didn't end pretty...I was so fuccing mad....So I kinda dig where ole girl is coming fro....
So I'm not helping to much am I... ...
::walks out::::
i feel where u comin' from, but u have many chickz who know about the his main woman/tha wifey....will call the HOUSE, KNOWING she livez there...& at NIGHT...when u KNOW it'z more tha likely that she'z there....with CHILDREN in the house too....will hear the wifey pick up...& will hang up
& call right back an hour later when she thinkz ol' dude iz home
so nah, kish - not every chick getz that message......they SHOULD...but they don't alwayz do...
naw i ain't like that, i know his schedule & at the time i called she's normally at school and he's not at work yet, i've never called or even texted at a time when she'd b around, and he ALWAYS keeps his phones on him...well, except today lol. ionknow if he wz n the room when i called or not, bt good thing she don't know what me or my car look like :? :arrow:
as far as u KNOW...
u betta watch ya'self, chica....
yep...like u said missy...this was DEFINATELY the final closing sign that u needed. I know it's hard to let go, and that even tho u said u were gonna cut him loose, so much of u just wanted sumthin as simple as hearing his voice. Girl...i'm right there right now my darn self, and sometimes it takes every fiber of strength not to pick up that phone. But it's possible hun. It really is. Just gotta let it go. Let this just be a learning experience and grow from it.
WELL I HOPE THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED YOUR LESSON! :wink: BECAUSE I KNOW THAT IF I WAS THE GIRLFRIEND AND YOU WERE THE OTHER WOMAN THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN A HUGE ALTRICATION (SPELLING ) WITH TWO PEOPLE ENDING UP IN THE HOSPITAL, AND NEITHER OF THOSE PEOPLE WOULD HAVE BEEN ME!!! BUT THAT'S JUST ME... I HAVE A VERY SHORT TEMPER! :twisted:
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::walks out::::
