spin-off from tha "I Have a Problem" thread...
briefly describe the type of person physically and personality-wise who is your Kryptonite...
you might've already ran across this type of person many times....or maybe you have yet to...
but just knowing YOURSELF...you know that WHEN and/or IF you do...that's just it - it's a wrap...
now these aren't supposed to be restrictions...like when you go looking, this is what you look for to a "T"...it's just...pretty much, aside from the fact that no one is perfect, IF you COULD have your perfect person...perfect for you...that's ya Kryptonite...
and even if you've met people who possess a good majority of the qualities....& those r the ones u've gone the most ga-ga over...which leads u 2 know what u your complete Kryptonite is...
okay, for me...my Kryptonite is...
physically: taller than me (6'0 & up); nice full frame, be it tha athletic football frame or tha cushiony one u can drown in when u hug 'em ; light brite to dark (sucker 4 all complexionz); dreamy dark eyes that pull u in & make u feel like u're the only being in the entire UNIVERSE; ummmmmmmmmmm....ooo a defined jawline; long (course OR str8ened) hair either all out or in cornrows; annnnnnnnd....everything else is optional...
mentally, emotionally, etc.: book and street intelligence; really funny w/ a great sense of humor; sweet; selfless; confident; respectful and self-respecting; unique; open-minded; crazy and silly, yet serious when necessary; assertive, with a hint of aggressiveness; conversational; determined and goal-oriented; mysterious to a certain extent; honest; trustworthy; and just cool overall...that's my Kryptonite ...let me find him - it'll be a wrap :arrow:
^^^Good Luck Finding him!!!!
Physically:
:arrow: (I totally agree with Meya on this one) Has to be taller than me (6'0 and up)
:arrow: A nice build...cause im not too much into skinny guys...being as im skinny! AND TWO STICKS WILL DO NOTHING BUT CREATE A FIRE!!!!!
:arrow: Nice smile
:arrow: Ooooo and im a sucker for nice legs and big lips!!
Personalty wise:
:arrow: Sense of humor...cause im goofy and if he dont have some kind of dorkiness inside of him, i'd probably drive him nuts!
:arrow: Someone who is willing to put up wit my stuff
:arrow: Open-minded...and someone who speaks their mind
:arrow: Somewhat Blunt
:arrow: Knows what they want in life...or at least has a clue.
:arrow: Someone that DOESNT let me just RUN ALL OVER HIM!!!!
Thats all i can think of for right now!
Ok Physically:
:arrow: I like a tall guy. 5'10 or taller
:arrow: Good teeth. Nice smile.
:arrow: Nice stomach.
:arrow: Nice calves.
:arrow: Darn, just a nice body....I find myself to be attracted to the football player physique.
Now Mentally:
:arrow: Must have God in his life.
:arrow: He must be intelligent.
:arrow: Must make me laugh...since I love to laugh.
:arrow: It's important for him to know whose and who he is.
:arrow: Must be a good conversationalist.
**There's more, but I don't feel like continuing right now**
These things seem so simple...but why is it so hard for me to find this guy?
The Physical
:arrow: About 5'0" --> 5'5"
:arrow: Stumpy build/ Ya'll know what im talkin about. The short, stumpy girl with a nice body.
:arrow: Cute face. Glasses are a plus
:arrow: Smooth caramel skin tone
:arrow: Cute legs & feet
:arrow: Almost always smells good
:arrow: Nice pair of soft ****
:arrow: She doesn't have to be real bootylicious. I'm not greedy.
:arrow: Pretty pair of eyes. I like having something to stare into when I'm talking to her.
The Mental
:arrow: Loving & caring
:arrow: Mother-like traits
:arrow: Good with kids.
:arrow: Conversational
:arrow: Silly at the right times (and I do mean silly. I can get str8 foolish when I want to...and she at least has to be able to have a sense of humor)
:!: Lady in public...freak by bedroom
:arrow: Open minded..in the bedroom, and outside of the bedroom
:arrow: Willing to try new things
:!: Able to chill sometimes. Too many of todays black women are busy-bodies that can't stand still or sit down for 10 minutes, like if there is anything going on, she HAS to be involved. Thats a really big turnoff to me. I run from busy-bodies.
:arrow: Able to cook
:arrow: Understanding
:arrow: Has some sort of work ethic. I have one, and success doesn't come from schooling alone. What good is a college degree when you dont wanna get up to go to work in the morning? Remember: The busiest are always the happiest.
:!: Has morals when it comes to the relationship. Talking to your "friend" while we're supposed to be having private time is a fukking NO NO!
:arrow: Common sense. Education isn't required at all. Common sense is. I know a lot of formally educated people who dont know how to balance a checkbook or pump gas. smh. :roll: If you haven't noticed, I pay more attention to the mental than the physical...but it still counts. I came pretty damned close to my "kryptonite" (and I mean REAL close...very recently). She knows who I'm talking about.
If you haven't noticed, I pay more attention to the mental than the physical...but it still counts. I came pretty damned close to my "kryptonite" (and I mean REAL close...very recently). She knows who I'm talking about.
oooooo....who is she, who is she, who is she?!? Inquiring minds want to know!
the physical:
:arrow: medium to long hair
:arrow: can't be taller than me (6'0)
:arrow: nice face
:arrow: nice lips
:arrow: gotta be kinda skinny and have some thickness
:arrow: gotta have some nice legs
the mental:
:arrow: gotta have God in her life
:arrow: must be smart and intellectual
:arrow: stand up for herself
:arrow: speak her mind
:arrow: good for some convo cuz i cant stand bein bored
:arrow: know how to cook
:arrow: loving and caring
Physically>>>beautiful smile, taller than me (5'9 and up), athletic build, nice lips, no skinny ppl
Mentally>>>being intellectual, protective (not over protective...just wanting to protect me), not afraid to speak about feelings, having goals for his life, likes doing things for his girl(not materialistic things...just being sweet...cooking, back rubs, and all that other good stuff), love kids, treats his mother good b/c 99% he will treat me good, and being able to let me do things for him and love him when the time comes.
Yea...my man got all them qualities
; light brite to dark (sucker 4 all complexionz); dreamy dark eyes that pull u in & make u feel like u're the only being in the entire UNIVERSE; ummmmmmmmmmm....ooo a defined jawline; long (course OR str8ened) hair either all out or in cornrows; annnnnnnnd....everything else is optional...
mentally, emotionally, etc.: book and street intelligence; really funny w/ a great sense of humor; sweet; selfless; confident; respectful and self-respecting; unique; open-minded; crazy and silly, yet serious when necessary; assertive, with a hint of aggressiveness; conversational; determined and goal-oriented; mysterious to a certain extent; honest; trustworthy; and just cool overall...
that's my Kryptonite 
